1 00:00:52,553 --> 00:00:55,456 MATTHEW: How far would you go to find love? 2 00:00:55,489 --> 00:00:58,359 LISETTE: Oh! I don't know, it depends on the love. 3 00:00:58,392 --> 00:01:01,529 MATTHEW: Magical, beyond your wildest dreams? 4 00:01:01,562 --> 00:01:02,863 LISETTE: I would kill for that. 5 00:01:04,198 --> 00:01:05,766 MATTHEW: What if I told you, you didn't have to? 6 00:01:06,700 --> 00:01:08,436 Consider this, 7 00:01:08,469 --> 00:01:12,573 you are the source of the love that you want for your life. 8 00:01:12,606 --> 00:01:14,375 LISETTE: It sounds too good to be true. 9 00:01:15,075 --> 00:01:16,544 It's not. 10 00:01:16,577 --> 00:01:19,180 Believe me when I tell you this. 11 00:01:19,213 --> 00:01:21,349 LISETTE: That's what your book is about, isn't it? 12 00:01:22,616 --> 00:01:24,552 It's about getting over your past, 13 00:01:25,453 --> 00:01:27,555 creating the love that you want, 14 00:01:27,588 --> 00:01:29,790 putting that love in your future 15 00:01:29,823 --> 00:01:31,459 and then living in to that future. 16 00:01:33,194 --> 00:01:35,763 So what's in Matthew Taylor's future? 17 00:01:38,866 --> 00:01:40,568 I am putting 18 00:01:40,601 --> 00:01:43,737 dinner and dancing with the lovely you in my future. 19 00:01:45,739 --> 00:01:47,675 I don't date guys from work. 20 00:01:47,708 --> 00:01:48,909 Come on, it's not a date. 21 00:01:48,942 --> 00:01:50,811 Oh, really? Then what is it? 22 00:01:54,515 --> 00:01:55,683 Let's find out. 23 00:02:02,223 --> 00:02:04,392 Sorry! 24 00:02:05,092 --> 00:02:06,394 It's okay. 25 00:02:07,261 --> 00:02:09,129 It usually goes away. 26 00:02:09,163 --> 00:02:10,498 Matthew, can I talk to you? 27 00:02:11,064 --> 00:02:12,300 You are done. 28 00:02:13,834 --> 00:02:14,868 Hey bro! 29 00:02:14,902 --> 00:02:16,804 We are ready for you, Mr. Taylor. 30 00:02:16,837 --> 00:02:19,139 Okay. Can you check this out? 31 00:02:19,173 --> 00:02:20,208 What's up? What am I looking at? 32 00:02:20,241 --> 00:02:21,542 Bestsellers list. 33 00:02:23,911 --> 00:02:25,679 I thought we're ranked number 12. 34 00:02:25,713 --> 00:02:28,349 We were, now we are 14. 35 00:02:28,382 --> 00:02:30,851 I am sorry, Mr. Taylor, but we really need you right now. 36 00:02:30,884 --> 00:02:32,119 Of course! Okay, just chill out! 37 00:02:32,152 --> 00:02:34,455 Listen man, we went from 11 to 14, 38 00:02:34,488 --> 00:02:36,990 that's not the direction we need to go to get to number one. 39 00:02:37,024 --> 00:02:40,093 These local talk show crazies ain't cutting it for us. 40 00:02:40,127 --> 00:02:41,795 Then why are we doing a local circuit? 41 00:02:41,829 --> 00:02:42,930 Because that's all we've got! 42 00:02:42,963 --> 00:02:45,866 I am terribly sorry, but if we don't get going they are 43 00:02:45,899 --> 00:02:48,769 they are going to... Okay, they are going to just chill out. 44 00:02:48,802 --> 00:02:52,806 We have to get your face and our message on a national show, period. 45 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,443 Is there a reason you are telling me this right before I do an interview? 46 00:02:55,476 --> 00:02:57,445 Yes, because I need you to consider this... 47 00:02:57,478 --> 00:02:58,846 For the love of God please! 48 00:02:58,879 --> 00:03:01,181 Will you just... Will you just come with me please, 49 00:03:01,215 --> 00:03:02,450 just do me this solid. 50 00:03:02,483 --> 00:03:03,751 You have to go, she is losing it! 51 00:03:03,784 --> 00:03:06,754 Listen man, do your thing, man, go get them, champ. 52 00:03:07,455 --> 00:03:09,623 Okay. You need a Percocet. 53 00:03:09,657 --> 00:03:13,661 Something in your life to calm your ass down, be careful with her. 54 00:03:13,694 --> 00:03:14,728 Be careful. 55 00:03:14,762 --> 00:03:15,763 Get right to the stage. 56 00:03:20,268 --> 00:03:23,170 Please welcome my next guest, Matthew Taylor! 57 00:03:27,808 --> 00:03:29,343 Looking good! 58 00:03:30,711 --> 00:03:32,346 Miss Raquel. 59 00:03:32,380 --> 00:03:33,581 You look beautiful as always. 60 00:03:33,614 --> 00:03:36,950 And you look hotter every time I see you. 61 00:03:39,019 --> 00:03:40,388 I am just saying. 62 00:03:41,455 --> 00:03:43,357 I think I'll take that as a compliment. 63 00:03:43,391 --> 00:03:45,926 You better because I don't say that to just everybody, 64 00:03:45,959 --> 00:03:47,027 just so you know that. 65 00:03:47,060 --> 00:03:48,396 Okay, now I know. 66 00:03:50,264 --> 00:03:52,300 Look at that face. 67 00:04:01,342 --> 00:04:05,879 Hi! Sorry, I was on a very long phone call. 68 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:11,419 He is cute! 69 00:04:11,452 --> 00:04:13,387 No, he is gorgeous! 70 00:04:18,459 --> 00:04:19,727 DANIKA: It's been a pretty good week. 71 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,297 I mean, I have just been feeling good. 72 00:04:23,331 --> 00:04:26,800 Nothing has happened or anything. I just... 73 00:04:26,834 --> 00:04:30,571 I feel okay. First time in a long time. 74 00:04:30,604 --> 00:04:33,841 You know sometimes we can get locked into 75 00:04:33,874 --> 00:04:35,108 a certain mode of feeling 76 00:04:35,142 --> 00:04:37,945 and even if that mode isn't comfortable 77 00:04:37,978 --> 00:04:40,113 like sadness or depression 78 00:04:40,147 --> 00:04:42,316 it can become ingrained to the point where 79 00:04:42,350 --> 00:04:43,851 it becomes our new baseline. 80 00:04:43,884 --> 00:04:46,920 That's a very normal part of the process. 81 00:04:46,954 --> 00:04:50,591 Do you think there is a little of that going on with you maybe? 82 00:04:51,124 --> 00:04:52,326 No. 83 00:04:53,361 --> 00:04:56,564 Honestly, I just think I'm over it. 84 00:04:56,597 --> 00:04:58,599 What does that mean to you? 85 00:04:58,632 --> 00:05:01,802 It means that I am ready to put my divorce behind me 86 00:05:02,536 --> 00:05:03,871 and get on with my life. 87 00:05:04,872 --> 00:05:06,474 I am ready to end therapy. 88 00:05:06,507 --> 00:05:08,442 That's good, that's good. 89 00:05:08,476 --> 00:05:10,678 That means we are starting to make real progress. 90 00:05:10,711 --> 00:05:12,112 Starting? 91 00:05:12,145 --> 00:05:14,848 As I said to you in the beginning therapy is marathon not a sprint. 92 00:05:14,882 --> 00:05:17,284 Well my insurance only pays for sprints, 93 00:05:17,317 --> 00:05:19,620 so you know, I am going to wrap it up. 94 00:05:21,955 --> 00:05:25,659 Okay, just open my calendar. 95 00:05:53,854 --> 00:05:57,024 Wow! Oh, my God! 96 00:05:58,759 --> 00:06:00,293 You have a whole lot of energy. 97 00:06:05,065 --> 00:06:07,868 I don't think I'll have to work out for a month. 98 00:06:14,074 --> 00:06:18,111 I have a crazy idea. 99 00:06:18,145 --> 00:06:20,180 What? I am listening. 100 00:06:20,213 --> 00:06:25,218 Let's spend all of tomorrow together. 101 00:06:26,954 --> 00:06:29,256 I will make breakfast and 102 00:06:29,289 --> 00:06:31,859 we will pack a beach picnic and layout. 103 00:06:31,892 --> 00:06:32,993 Oh, 104 00:06:33,026 --> 00:06:38,131 let's catch up play or watch a double feature. 105 00:06:42,670 --> 00:06:44,772 Oh, it will be amazing. 106 00:06:50,678 --> 00:06:52,613 Unless you have plans! 107 00:06:53,380 --> 00:06:54,582 Well, 108 00:06:55,382 --> 00:06:58,151 I did. I mean I do. 109 00:07:00,153 --> 00:07:03,023 I mean that's okay, right? 110 00:07:04,091 --> 00:07:05,659 Of course! 111 00:07:09,129 --> 00:07:11,098 I was just being silly. 112 00:07:11,131 --> 00:07:12,733 It was sweet! 113 00:07:12,766 --> 00:07:14,167 I should go! 114 00:07:14,201 --> 00:07:15,368 No! No! Yeah! 115 00:07:15,402 --> 00:07:16,637 I should! You don't have to... 116 00:07:16,670 --> 00:07:18,672 I should go. 117 00:07:18,706 --> 00:07:24,512 Uh, Lisette, you don't... You don't have to go, seriously. 118 00:07:24,545 --> 00:07:27,280 I had a great time. 119 00:07:27,314 --> 00:07:28,782 I will see myself out. 120 00:07:28,816 --> 00:07:30,017 Ah God! 121 00:07:31,284 --> 00:07:33,353 Did you at least taken a breakfast? 122 00:07:33,386 --> 00:07:35,489 T, I didn't even get that far. 123 00:07:35,523 --> 00:07:36,757 You are a dog! 124 00:07:36,790 --> 00:07:39,459 Oh, come on, cut it out. She ripped up out of here. 125 00:07:39,493 --> 00:07:40,828 I wanted her to stay. 126 00:07:40,861 --> 00:07:42,262 No, you didn't! 127 00:07:42,295 --> 00:07:45,165 Look, I am never going to get in the way of a brother doing his thing, 128 00:07:45,198 --> 00:07:46,466 but a relationship guru 129 00:07:46,500 --> 00:07:48,536 should be in a relationship longer than a minute. 130 00:07:48,569 --> 00:07:52,606 How about you just stick to doing your thing and I will stick to doing mine? 131 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:56,777 Get you prepped for a national TV tour, is my thing. 132 00:07:56,810 --> 00:07:58,846 People love controversy, Matthew, 133 00:07:58,879 --> 00:08:01,014 and they are going to start digging it up. 134 00:08:01,048 --> 00:08:01,915 What do you want me to do? 135 00:08:01,949 --> 00:08:03,183 You want me to be in a relationship 136 00:08:03,216 --> 00:08:04,952 because you think it will be better for my image? 137 00:08:04,985 --> 00:08:07,688 Image is everything, don't forget that. 138 00:08:14,061 --> 00:08:16,797 Stop! Stop what? 139 00:08:16,830 --> 00:08:18,732 Stop looking at me like that! 140 00:08:18,766 --> 00:08:21,168 What do you mean, that's what dads are supposed to do. 141 00:08:21,201 --> 00:08:26,373 Yeah, you are totally right and everything, but, like, we are in public. 142 00:08:26,406 --> 00:08:27,741 Oh, my bad! My bad! 143 00:08:27,775 --> 00:08:30,744 I wouldn't want to mess up your little cool points, sorry! 144 00:08:30,778 --> 00:08:32,680 Dad, you are so corny! 145 00:08:32,713 --> 00:08:34,314 Oh, come on, that was funny. 146 00:08:34,347 --> 00:08:35,549 Corny! 147 00:08:36,183 --> 00:08:37,551 I thought it was funny. 148 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:45,158 Hey, hey! Did you just stare down that boy? 149 00:08:45,192 --> 00:08:48,696 Seriously, I am 13, like 150 00:08:48,729 --> 00:08:51,531 30% or whatever of 13-year-olds are having sex. 151 00:08:51,565 --> 00:08:53,233 Whoa! Whoa! Wait a minute! 152 00:08:53,266 --> 00:08:56,136 You better be on the right side of that 30% young lady. 153 00:08:56,169 --> 00:08:59,472 I was just kidding, it's more like 10%. 154 00:08:59,506 --> 00:09:02,075 And yes, I am an angel. 155 00:09:02,109 --> 00:09:04,211 Hurry up already! 156 00:09:04,244 --> 00:09:06,980 10%! Oh, no! No! 157 00:09:19,259 --> 00:09:21,194 Aleya! 158 00:09:21,228 --> 00:09:23,096 Aleya! That's crazy! 159 00:09:24,464 --> 00:09:27,234 Yeah, you can thank your Uncle Terry for this silly thing. 160 00:09:28,368 --> 00:09:29,637 It's kind of cool. 161 00:09:29,670 --> 00:09:30,804 Wait, what are we doing in here? 162 00:09:30,838 --> 00:09:33,140 You know what I look like already. 163 00:09:33,173 --> 00:09:34,675 I want to get it for Mom. 164 00:09:36,944 --> 00:09:41,181 Sweetheart, I don't know if that's such a good idea. 165 00:09:41,214 --> 00:09:44,417 What if I told you, Mom and George are on the rocks 166 00:09:44,451 --> 00:09:47,254 and she might need to bounce back? 167 00:09:47,287 --> 00:09:49,890 Did they No, 168 00:09:49,923 --> 00:09:52,660 but I know she and George are dying to read it. 169 00:09:52,693 --> 00:09:54,762 Look here, sweetheart, 170 00:09:54,795 --> 00:09:57,430 if your mom wanted to read the book so bad, 171 00:09:57,464 --> 00:09:59,399 why didn't she just ask me for a copy? 172 00:09:59,432 --> 00:10:00,634 I don't know. 173 00:10:00,668 --> 00:10:03,203 She wants you to have your privacy or whatever. 174 00:10:03,236 --> 00:10:04,772 You should ask her yourself. 175 00:10:22,890 --> 00:10:24,124 Hello? 176 00:10:24,157 --> 00:10:26,593 Whatever you're doing, drop it, and get over to Nine stat. 177 00:10:26,626 --> 00:10:27,795 I can't. 178 00:10:27,828 --> 00:10:29,963 Look, I know exactly what you're doing, okay? 179 00:10:29,997 --> 00:10:31,699 And your journey of self-discovery 180 00:10:31,732 --> 00:10:33,533 is going to be there when you get home. 181 00:10:33,566 --> 00:10:36,636 Well, you go ahead and mock, but as the great G.I. Gurdjieff says, 182 00:10:36,670 --> 00:10:39,306 "Without understanding the workings and functions of his machine, 183 00:10:39,339 --> 00:10:40,607 "man cannot be free." 184 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,243 Yes, and without a penis your vagina would soon turn to stone. 185 00:10:43,276 --> 00:10:44,411 Very classy Sarah! 186 00:10:44,444 --> 00:10:47,647 Just get over here! I am not taking no for an answer. 187 00:10:48,716 --> 00:10:49,950 She's hung up! 188 00:10:53,754 --> 00:10:55,355 MATTHEW : Don't get me wrong, 189 00:10:57,725 --> 00:10:59,960 I just never got anything out of this life 190 00:10:59,993 --> 00:11:02,495 by sitting around introspecting myself. 191 00:11:02,529 --> 00:11:05,999 The mind is an ugly place to dwell. 192 00:11:06,033 --> 00:11:08,368 We all hear those voices in our heads. 193 00:11:08,401 --> 00:11:09,970 What is this guy talking about? 194 00:11:10,003 --> 00:11:12,773 It's that same voice that's asking you right now, 195 00:11:12,806 --> 00:11:14,842 what the hell is this guy talking about? 196 00:11:14,875 --> 00:11:17,310 Well, see, the key is to get out of your head 197 00:11:17,344 --> 00:11:19,146 and get into action. 198 00:11:19,179 --> 00:11:22,515 And my book The Bounce Back will help you do just that. 199 00:11:25,786 --> 00:11:29,256 Oh, brother! How about this for action? 200 00:11:31,024 --> 00:11:33,861 Here is to Kristin and a rare night out 201 00:11:33,894 --> 00:11:36,764 among the single and sexually active. 202 00:11:36,797 --> 00:11:38,231 Woo! Turn up! 203 00:11:38,265 --> 00:11:39,266 Oh, brother. 204 00:11:41,068 --> 00:11:41,969 Cheers! 205 00:11:45,472 --> 00:11:46,774 One more! Ah! 206 00:11:46,807 --> 00:11:49,409 Again! Ah! 207 00:11:49,442 --> 00:11:51,578 Two more! I lied. Ah! 208 00:11:51,611 --> 00:11:53,480 You're nothing today! Ah! 209 00:11:53,513 --> 00:11:54,748 Nobody! 210 00:11:54,782 --> 00:11:57,918 You've got Big Vlad. That's me. That's it. 211 00:11:57,951 --> 00:12:00,320 Where's your head at? Ah! 212 00:12:02,823 --> 00:12:05,192 One minute! Get your mind right. 213 00:12:05,225 --> 00:12:06,259 Yeah. 214 00:12:07,427 --> 00:12:09,763 Get back to work! 215 00:12:09,797 --> 00:12:12,032 Why do you let him talk to you like that? 216 00:12:12,065 --> 00:12:14,401 I pay him a lot of money to talk to me like that. 217 00:12:14,434 --> 00:12:15,869 He is creepy! 218 00:12:15,903 --> 00:12:17,270 You're going to stand up to him? 219 00:12:17,304 --> 00:12:18,338 I ain't afraid of him. 220 00:12:18,371 --> 00:12:19,807 Oh, please! 221 00:12:25,312 --> 00:12:26,513 Unbelievable! 222 00:12:27,580 --> 00:12:29,049 Oh, come on T, 223 00:12:29,082 --> 00:12:31,484 don't sweat that national spotlight thing. 224 00:12:31,518 --> 00:12:32,585 We'll get there. 225 00:12:32,619 --> 00:12:34,121 The news cycle lasts minutes these days, 226 00:12:34,154 --> 00:12:37,791 either you're going viral or you play it out, simple as that. 227 00:12:40,193 --> 00:12:41,829 What? 228 00:12:41,862 --> 00:12:44,531 I see you've got yourself an idea. What? Spit it out! 229 00:12:44,564 --> 00:12:45,899 The George Addison Show. 230 00:12:45,933 --> 00:12:47,167 Don't even go there T! 231 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:48,701 I am serious. Hey, what did I say? 232 00:12:48,735 --> 00:12:49,903 Hear me out, 233 00:12:49,937 --> 00:12:52,072 we've got to crack the bestseller and top ten. 234 00:12:52,105 --> 00:12:54,541 He has a nationally syndicated talk show. 235 00:12:54,574 --> 00:12:58,111 I mean, we keep slipping points we can kiss getting to number one goodbye. 236 00:12:58,145 --> 00:13:01,248 Plus, there's a relationship between you two. 237 00:13:01,281 --> 00:13:04,251 T, thanks to you, the irony is not lost on me. 238 00:13:04,284 --> 00:13:07,254 I don't know what you mean by that, but we need this. 239 00:13:07,287 --> 00:13:09,489 That's my family you're messing with. 240 00:13:10,891 --> 00:13:12,860 What are you talking about? Listen man, 241 00:13:12,893 --> 00:13:14,594 Julie and Aleya 242 00:13:14,627 --> 00:13:16,296 look happier than ever. 243 00:13:16,329 --> 00:13:19,833 They're not going to mind you, you know, working on George for a break. 244 00:13:22,535 --> 00:13:23,871 What is wrong with you? 245 00:13:25,205 --> 00:13:26,840 Oh, man! 246 00:13:28,408 --> 00:13:31,211 You're not afraid of me, huh? You owe me some sits! 247 00:13:31,244 --> 00:13:34,281 Get in there! That's it! That's good! 248 00:13:35,648 --> 00:13:38,018 You must be an only child, huh? 249 00:13:38,051 --> 00:13:40,553 You're one ugly kid. 250 00:13:40,587 --> 00:13:41,889 Let's go faster! 251 00:13:41,922 --> 00:13:43,857 Let's go! Okay! 252 00:13:46,526 --> 00:13:48,028 Matthew! 253 00:13:48,061 --> 00:13:51,131 Matthew! Come on! Why would you leave me in that gym with that crazy man? 254 00:13:51,164 --> 00:13:53,066 Terry, I've got to go, man. Look! Hey! 255 00:13:53,100 --> 00:13:55,768 I am sorry. I was out of line. 256 00:13:55,802 --> 00:13:58,771 I was out of line, man. Um, 257 00:13:58,805 --> 00:14:00,440 look, I know this Bacardi Bar 258 00:14:00,473 --> 00:14:03,276 has a pool party. Boy, we could slide through that, 259 00:14:03,310 --> 00:14:04,811 get you a little hot girlfriend. 260 00:14:04,844 --> 00:14:06,813 You know I am about to go do my seminar. 261 00:14:06,846 --> 00:14:08,381 You really should come. 262 00:14:08,415 --> 00:14:10,850 No, no, I am cool, cool! No, I have a perfectly healthy love life. 263 00:14:10,884 --> 00:14:12,252 Please! No, you don't! 264 00:14:12,285 --> 00:14:14,187 How would you know? You're a grown man 265 00:14:14,221 --> 00:14:16,089 who has never been in love, that's how I know. 266 00:14:16,123 --> 00:14:18,791 Look, man, bag yourself a girlfriend, 267 00:14:18,825 --> 00:14:20,527 a famous one would be nice, 268 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:21,594 think about it. 269 00:14:21,628 --> 00:14:23,596 Up and coming, relationship guru 270 00:14:23,630 --> 00:14:27,234 comes into a love thing with a famous Hollywood actress. 271 00:14:27,267 --> 00:14:29,469 It sounds good, don't it? Do it! 272 00:14:31,972 --> 00:14:36,376 It's been valuable. I am not saying it hasn't. 273 00:14:38,111 --> 00:14:41,281 I just don't know if this is for me. 274 00:14:41,614 --> 00:14:42,983 I see! 275 00:14:43,016 --> 00:14:45,518 And why is that you think? 276 00:14:47,554 --> 00:14:49,089 No one 277 00:14:49,122 --> 00:14:52,359 ever got anything they really wanted in life 278 00:14:52,392 --> 00:14:55,262 sitting around introspecting themselves. 279 00:14:56,329 --> 00:15:00,500 Sometimes you have to get out of your head and 280 00:15:00,533 --> 00:15:02,069 into action. 281 00:15:02,635 --> 00:15:03,937 Matthew Taylor, 282 00:15:04,837 --> 00:15:06,006 the person that you're quoting, 283 00:15:06,039 --> 00:15:09,309 you're quoting Matthew Taylor. 284 00:15:09,342 --> 00:15:10,343 No. 285 00:15:11,311 --> 00:15:13,947 One can only introspect oneself, 286 00:15:13,981 --> 00:15:15,848 that's what the word means. 287 00:15:15,882 --> 00:15:18,851 So saying introspect oneself is redundant 288 00:15:18,885 --> 00:15:20,620 and might suggest that Mr. Taylor doesn't know 289 00:15:20,653 --> 00:15:22,755 what he is talking about when he uses that word. 290 00:15:22,789 --> 00:15:23,856 Yeah, but... 291 00:15:23,890 --> 00:15:25,993 Secondly, he is a life coach, 292 00:15:26,026 --> 00:15:30,563 i.e, he has no training of any kind in psychology 293 00:15:30,597 --> 00:15:32,199 or human behavior. 294 00:15:32,232 --> 00:15:35,335 I took his seminar last weekend 295 00:15:35,368 --> 00:15:37,604 and it changed my life. And it might 296 00:15:37,637 --> 00:15:39,139 seem like that right now, 297 00:15:39,172 --> 00:15:41,274 but in time I assure you 298 00:15:41,308 --> 00:15:44,344 that you will realize that you wasted your money. 299 00:15:44,377 --> 00:15:46,179 Really? Yes! 300 00:15:46,213 --> 00:15:49,116 Yes! You should try it. 301 00:15:50,417 --> 00:15:52,986 It might help you pull the stick out of your ass. 302 00:15:56,789 --> 00:15:58,658 Oh, God! I blew that one! 303 00:16:10,537 --> 00:16:11,604 Get in! 304 00:16:11,638 --> 00:16:13,306 What is this thing? 305 00:16:13,340 --> 00:16:15,842 Remember that professional wrestler guy that I kind of dated 306 00:16:15,875 --> 00:16:18,411 and then... Oh, wait, hey, no, look, as far as you're concerned, 307 00:16:18,445 --> 00:16:21,348 it doesn't matter, this is your weekend chariot. 308 00:16:21,381 --> 00:16:23,216 Yeah, she is right. Here is how it's going down, 309 00:16:23,250 --> 00:16:25,552 we're going to go to your house. You have exactly 15 minutes 310 00:16:25,585 --> 00:16:28,221 to pack a bag and then we are taking you away for the weekend. 311 00:16:28,255 --> 00:16:30,257 No is not an acceptable answer. 312 00:16:30,290 --> 00:16:33,226 No, we will not answer any questions, so don't even try. 313 00:16:34,061 --> 00:16:35,595 Well, here... 314 00:16:35,628 --> 00:16:37,930 Here is for when your asshole gets too tight for its own good. 315 00:16:39,466 --> 00:16:42,035 Fine, I'll take them, but I won't take them. 316 00:16:42,569 --> 00:16:44,171 Get in! Okay. 317 00:16:48,375 --> 00:16:49,742 Ready? Yes. 318 00:16:51,244 --> 00:16:54,114 * We freak in my jeep 319 00:16:54,147 --> 00:16:57,184 * Snoop Doggy Dogg on the stereo * 320 00:16:59,252 --> 00:17:02,189 * You could travel the world 321 00:17:02,222 --> 00:17:03,956 * But nothing comes close 322 00:17:03,990 --> 00:17:06,793 * To the golden coast 323 00:17:06,826 --> 00:17:09,662 * Once you party with us 324 00:17:09,696 --> 00:17:11,831 * You'll be falling in love 325 00:17:11,864 --> 00:17:13,833 * Oooooh oh oooooh 326 00:17:13,866 --> 00:17:15,968 * California girls 327 00:17:16,002 --> 00:17:17,437 * We're unforgettable 328 00:17:17,470 --> 00:17:21,174 * Daisy Dukes Bikinis on top 329 00:17:21,208 --> 00:17:22,575 * Sun-kissed skin 330 00:17:22,609 --> 00:17:25,078 * So hot we'll melt your popsicle * 331 00:17:25,112 --> 00:17:27,814 Hey! Hi! 332 00:17:27,847 --> 00:17:29,582 I am ready for the Gas Lamp. Oh! 333 00:17:29,616 --> 00:17:33,753 Yes, but first, we're going to do a little personal enrichment. 334 00:17:33,786 --> 00:17:34,921 What are you talking about? 335 00:17:34,954 --> 00:17:36,656 Where are we going? You'll see. 336 00:17:36,689 --> 00:17:38,958 It's going to be really exciting. You're going to love it. 337 00:17:41,961 --> 00:17:43,596 Thank you ladies! 338 00:17:44,597 --> 00:17:48,067 Now, the man you've all been waiting for. 339 00:17:59,146 --> 00:18:00,580 That guy? 340 00:18:02,715 --> 00:18:04,251 He is gorgeous! 341 00:18:09,156 --> 00:18:10,523 Hello ladies! 342 00:18:14,194 --> 00:18:16,763 My name is Matthew Taylor and this is The Bounce Back! 343 00:18:20,333 --> 00:18:22,001 What we're going to do this weekend 344 00:18:22,034 --> 00:18:23,703 is delve into the strategies in creating 345 00:18:23,736 --> 00:18:27,140 the kind of love that you want for your life. 346 00:18:27,174 --> 00:18:28,841 Oh, no! No way! This is not happening girls! 347 00:18:28,875 --> 00:18:32,712 Hey, wait, you need to be open to this. How many of you are here 348 00:18:32,745 --> 00:18:34,814 because you've had your heart broken recently? 349 00:18:36,983 --> 00:18:38,585 That's original. 350 00:18:38,618 --> 00:18:41,053 Okay. Do me a favor, keep your hands up 351 00:18:41,087 --> 00:18:42,889 until I ask you to put them down, okay? 352 00:18:44,324 --> 00:18:47,059 If you've had your heart broken in the last week, 353 00:18:47,093 --> 00:18:48,461 go ahead and put your hands down. 354 00:18:49,229 --> 00:18:50,730 In the last month, 355 00:18:50,763 --> 00:18:52,932 if you've had your heart broken in the last month, 356 00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:54,734 go ahead and put your hands down. 357 00:18:54,767 --> 00:18:57,237 Six months? Really? 358 00:18:57,270 --> 00:18:58,905 How about the last two years? 359 00:19:00,540 --> 00:19:01,541 Three years? 360 00:19:02,209 --> 00:19:03,943 Five years? 361 00:19:03,976 --> 00:19:05,878 Keep it up. I don't want to keep it up! 362 00:19:07,079 --> 00:19:08,515 Six years? 363 00:19:11,851 --> 00:19:12,852 Miss? 364 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:14,921 Miss? 365 00:19:16,389 --> 00:19:17,390 Miss? 366 00:19:18,291 --> 00:19:20,193 Would you mind stepping up to the mike? 367 00:19:20,227 --> 00:19:22,161 Oh, no, no, I am good. 368 00:19:22,995 --> 00:19:24,297 What's your name? 369 00:19:25,131 --> 00:19:27,066 Kristin Peralto. 370 00:19:27,099 --> 00:19:30,303 Kristin, so how long has it been, Kristin? 371 00:19:32,339 --> 00:19:34,574 It has been six and a half years. 372 00:19:34,607 --> 00:19:35,742 CROWDS: Oh! Ooh! 373 00:19:35,775 --> 00:19:38,978 Okay, okay, it's all good. It's nothing to be ashamed of. 374 00:19:39,011 --> 00:19:41,948 All of us here know how hard it is to get over a relationship. 375 00:19:43,816 --> 00:19:48,054 Kristin, if you would humor me, step up to the mic so everybody can hear you? 376 00:19:48,087 --> 00:19:51,291 I am good. I am good. 377 00:19:52,859 --> 00:19:56,329 I am good! I am really good! 378 00:19:56,963 --> 00:19:59,232 I am good, I am good! 379 00:20:06,606 --> 00:20:08,308 How many of you have heard the old saying 380 00:20:08,341 --> 00:20:11,110 about how long it takes to get over a relationship? 381 00:20:11,143 --> 00:20:13,346 Oh, half as long as you were in it. 382 00:20:13,380 --> 00:20:15,014 There it is, that's the one I was looking for, 383 00:20:15,047 --> 00:20:16,616 half as long as you were in it. 384 00:20:16,649 --> 00:20:18,851 How many of you actually agree with that theory? 385 00:20:20,653 --> 00:20:22,522 Would you like to know how long it really takes? 386 00:20:22,555 --> 00:20:23,723 CROWDS: Yes. 387 00:20:23,756 --> 00:20:26,759 Exactly as long as you want it to be. 388 00:20:30,062 --> 00:20:31,964 So Kristin, 389 00:20:31,998 --> 00:20:35,602 getting over a relationship takes exactly as long as you want it to. 390 00:20:37,504 --> 00:20:39,472 Yeah, if it were that easy. 391 00:20:40,540 --> 00:20:42,174 What do you do for a living? 392 00:20:42,208 --> 00:20:44,143 I am a therapist. 393 00:20:44,176 --> 00:20:47,280 So you are trained to dissect the past, 394 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,215 to really dig into it, 395 00:20:49,248 --> 00:20:51,017 sift through it in great detail, am I right? 396 00:20:51,050 --> 00:20:55,322 If you insist on grossly oversimplifying it, sure. 397 00:20:55,355 --> 00:20:56,689 How is that working out for you? 398 00:20:57,757 --> 00:21:01,828 I've heard your spiel and it sounds marvelous, 399 00:21:01,861 --> 00:21:04,797 who wouldn't want to get over a painful breakup instantly? 400 00:21:06,833 --> 00:21:08,368 You don't. 401 00:21:08,401 --> 00:21:11,103 People grow real attached to their pain. 402 00:21:11,137 --> 00:21:14,040 It becomes a constant story that they play back over-and-over again. 403 00:21:14,073 --> 00:21:16,343 They tell their friends, their coworkers, their relatives, 404 00:21:16,376 --> 00:21:19,346 just wonk, wonk, wonk... 405 00:21:19,379 --> 00:21:21,381 And your friends listen to the story 406 00:21:21,414 --> 00:21:23,182 and then they regurgitate it right back. 407 00:21:23,215 --> 00:21:24,817 Now, why? 408 00:21:24,851 --> 00:21:27,587 Well, it's because this story gives you a payoff. 409 00:21:27,620 --> 00:21:30,957 You don't have to face the things that you know that you should, 410 00:21:30,990 --> 00:21:32,191 like going to the gym. 411 00:21:34,494 --> 00:21:37,864 Allowing yourself to feel vulnerable with a man, 412 00:21:37,897 --> 00:21:38,998 or in your case, Kristin, 413 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,001 standing here and listening to me right now. 414 00:21:42,935 --> 00:21:44,637 The problem with therapy 415 00:21:44,671 --> 00:21:47,740 is even once you finally understand your pain, 416 00:21:49,141 --> 00:21:50,710 it doesn't really help you let it go. 417 00:21:50,743 --> 00:21:54,614 You... You can't just will yourself to not feel pain. 418 00:21:54,647 --> 00:21:55,782 Consider that it's possible. 419 00:21:55,815 --> 00:21:59,118 It's not. It's not possible. It's not. 420 00:21:59,151 --> 00:22:00,553 Would you at least consider it? 421 00:22:00,587 --> 00:22:01,588 No. 422 00:22:02,822 --> 00:22:05,392 Have... Have any of you tried it? CROWDS: Yeah. 423 00:22:05,425 --> 00:22:07,394 Yeah. I am sure you have, a million times. 424 00:22:07,427 --> 00:22:08,661 I know I have. 425 00:22:08,695 --> 00:22:10,363 I wake up in the morning and I think, hey, 426 00:22:10,397 --> 00:22:13,966 I am feeling better and then I go on a bad date. 427 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,236 I go home. I watch Ice Loves Coco and I burst into tears. 428 00:22:17,269 --> 00:22:19,672 Why? I have no idea why. 429 00:22:19,706 --> 00:22:22,442 The mind is a complete freaking mystery, 430 00:22:22,475 --> 00:22:25,111 which is why there are highly trained professionals 431 00:22:25,144 --> 00:22:27,279 whose job it is to help. 432 00:22:27,313 --> 00:22:29,181 Quick fixes like yours 433 00:22:29,215 --> 00:22:30,650 are always a scam, 434 00:22:30,683 --> 00:22:35,054 whether it's a pill, a book, or a seminar. 435 00:22:41,794 --> 00:22:42,962 Wow! I am sorry! 436 00:22:45,064 --> 00:22:47,834 Settle down. Settle down. 437 00:22:47,867 --> 00:22:50,236 I actually agree with Kristin to some extent, 438 00:22:50,269 --> 00:22:53,706 but this seminar is not a quick fix. 439 00:22:53,740 --> 00:22:55,875 What we're going to do over the next two days 440 00:22:55,908 --> 00:22:59,879 is give you the tools to get over it and stay over it. 441 00:23:00,813 --> 00:23:02,549 Oh, my God! 442 00:23:05,284 --> 00:23:07,687 What was that? 443 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,623 I'm embarrassed. I sounded like a bitter old hag, didn't I? 444 00:23:10,657 --> 00:23:11,458 Totally! 445 00:23:11,491 --> 00:23:13,960 But in a Kristin kind of way. 446 00:23:13,993 --> 00:23:15,094 Right! Yeah. 447 00:23:15,928 --> 00:23:16,996 It was good. 448 00:23:17,029 --> 00:23:18,230 No, look, I am sorry, 449 00:23:18,264 --> 00:23:20,433 you guys were trying to do something nice and I ruined it. 450 00:23:20,467 --> 00:23:22,368 No, no, no, you just gave us a story 451 00:23:22,401 --> 00:23:25,805 that we are going to be able to tell for years to come, okay? 452 00:23:25,838 --> 00:23:28,340 This is just totally worth the price of admission. 453 00:23:28,374 --> 00:23:29,476 Yeah, because I paid. 454 00:23:29,509 --> 00:23:30,677 Really you guys aren't mad? 455 00:23:30,710 --> 00:23:33,379 Hell no! Chicks before dicks. 456 00:23:33,412 --> 00:23:34,581 Let's get out of here. 457 00:23:34,614 --> 00:23:35,915 No, no, no, I don't want you to miss the rest. 458 00:23:35,948 --> 00:23:37,617 Oh, come on, I don't want to break this up. 459 00:23:37,650 --> 00:23:40,987 Yeah, yeah, slam bitches. 460 00:23:41,888 --> 00:23:43,422 Yeah, slam bitch. 461 00:23:44,323 --> 00:23:45,525 Come on! 462 00:23:45,558 --> 00:23:47,460 Gas Lamp, bitches. Gas Lamp, bitches. 463 00:23:47,494 --> 00:23:48,895 Let's go! 464 00:23:48,928 --> 00:23:51,030 Just do it, it will make you feel better. Gas Lamp, bitches. 465 00:23:51,063 --> 00:23:52,699 Yes! Yeah! 466 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,435 I know it's going to be fun. 467 00:23:57,637 --> 00:24:00,707 Oh, oh, sex bomb three o'clock. 468 00:24:01,774 --> 00:24:03,510 Would you excuse me for just a moment? 469 00:24:04,210 --> 00:24:05,211 Ladies! 470 00:24:05,978 --> 00:24:07,079 Ladies! 471 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,081 You're not leaving, are you? 472 00:24:10,617 --> 00:24:14,253 I am sorry, but this just isn't our thing. 473 00:24:14,286 --> 00:24:15,988 It's not exactly Ice Loves Coco. 474 00:24:20,159 --> 00:24:22,394 Well, I'd be more than happy to refund your money. 475 00:24:22,428 --> 00:24:24,130 No, keep it. We're going to go to The Gaslamp 476 00:24:24,163 --> 00:24:26,265 to deal with our problems the old-fashioned way. 477 00:24:26,298 --> 00:24:28,467 That's right. She means drinking. 478 00:24:28,501 --> 00:24:29,736 Yeah. I think he gets it. 479 00:24:29,769 --> 00:24:32,639 Well, good luck with that! 480 00:24:32,672 --> 00:24:33,973 I am sorry you're not staying. 481 00:24:34,373 --> 00:24:35,575 Thanks! 482 00:24:37,677 --> 00:24:38,911 Bye! 483 00:24:40,580 --> 00:24:43,583 I am really sorry about what happened over there. 484 00:24:47,053 --> 00:24:48,655 Hey! 485 00:24:49,722 --> 00:24:50,990 So who read the book? 486 00:24:51,023 --> 00:24:54,727 He was staring at your ass so hard! Oh, please! No! 487 00:24:54,761 --> 00:24:56,495 No, he looks at every woman like that. 488 00:24:56,529 --> 00:24:58,898 I mean I know that kind of guy. 489 00:25:03,636 --> 00:25:05,572 Okay. Really, what do you think of Matthew Taylor? 490 00:25:05,605 --> 00:25:07,406 He is hot. I will give him that, 491 00:25:07,439 --> 00:25:09,441 but that's exactly my point. 492 00:25:09,475 --> 00:25:11,110 If he look like Dr. Phil, 493 00:25:11,143 --> 00:25:14,747 he wouldn't have a gaggle of fawning bimbos hanging on his every word. 494 00:25:14,781 --> 00:25:16,783 Yeah, but that's just the way the world works. 495 00:25:16,816 --> 00:25:18,585 That doesn't make it right. 496 00:25:18,618 --> 00:25:20,119 Well, it doesn't make it wrong either. 497 00:25:20,152 --> 00:25:22,288 I mean you are doing the same thing as these bimbos, 498 00:25:22,321 --> 00:25:24,090 you are judging the book by its cover. 499 00:25:26,425 --> 00:25:30,529 Is this a book about relationships or a swimsuit calendar? 500 00:25:30,563 --> 00:25:32,599 Does anyone really care? 501 00:25:32,632 --> 00:25:34,366 You guys are hopeless. 502 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,535 No! We are celebrating. 503 00:25:39,505 --> 00:25:41,741 Hold on! This could be a client. 504 00:25:42,508 --> 00:25:43,710 Hello? 505 00:25:44,777 --> 00:25:45,778 Yes. 506 00:25:47,346 --> 00:25:48,648 When? 507 00:25:59,992 --> 00:26:02,128 Uh-oh! He is honking for you. You better hurry. 508 00:26:04,130 --> 00:26:05,765 Love you babe! Love you! 509 00:26:11,303 --> 00:26:13,640 Move your butt, slow poke. 510 00:26:13,673 --> 00:26:15,808 Dad, you really need to get a girlfriend. 511 00:26:17,143 --> 00:26:18,611 Excuse you? 512 00:26:22,314 --> 00:26:23,883 And why is that? 513 00:26:23,916 --> 00:26:26,185 I don't know, even out the scores. 514 00:26:26,719 --> 00:26:28,287 Mom has George. 515 00:26:31,323 --> 00:26:32,725 You should meet him. 516 00:26:33,793 --> 00:26:38,430 Aleya, why would I want to meet George? 517 00:26:38,464 --> 00:26:40,633 He is a nice guy, you would like him. 518 00:26:42,702 --> 00:26:44,203 You like him a lot, huh? 519 00:26:44,236 --> 00:26:46,305 Yeah, he is good for Mom. 520 00:26:48,975 --> 00:26:49,809 Sorry! 521 00:26:49,842 --> 00:26:52,244 Does that make you feel bad? 522 00:26:53,479 --> 00:26:55,081 It's complicated, sweetheart. 523 00:26:56,282 --> 00:26:58,317 I heard that one before. 524 00:26:58,350 --> 00:27:00,987 I promise you will understand when you get older. 525 00:27:01,020 --> 00:27:01,921 Oh, my God! 526 00:27:01,954 --> 00:27:03,890 Now I have really heard that one before. 527 00:27:03,923 --> 00:27:07,459 Okay! You know what, can you stay a little girl, 528 00:27:07,493 --> 00:27:09,628 just a little while longer, please? 529 00:27:12,431 --> 00:27:14,233 You are such a busybody. 530 00:27:17,069 --> 00:27:18,070 Wow! 531 00:27:20,472 --> 00:27:22,108 Speedy! What's the rush? 532 00:27:22,141 --> 00:27:25,044 No rush, I just don't want to miss him. 533 00:27:25,077 --> 00:27:27,413 Miss him 534 00:27:27,446 --> 00:27:28,580 Come on, Dad. 535 00:27:28,614 --> 00:27:30,717 Come on, Dad, nothing. Miss who? 536 00:27:30,750 --> 00:27:32,251 Hey! Who is him? 537 00:27:32,284 --> 00:27:35,654 Nice, man! I see you out there. Keep that up. 538 00:27:35,688 --> 00:27:37,757 Maybe I can show you a thing or two. 539 00:27:41,227 --> 00:27:42,895 Aleya! Hey! 540 00:27:42,929 --> 00:27:45,531 Oh, hey! What's up? 541 00:27:45,564 --> 00:27:47,700 You know, the same old shit. 542 00:27:48,367 --> 00:27:49,435 Is that your dad? 543 00:27:50,970 --> 00:27:52,604 Uh, yeah. 544 00:27:52,638 --> 00:27:54,673 Oh! Cool! 545 00:27:54,707 --> 00:27:56,342 Hello! I am Jeff. 546 00:27:57,376 --> 00:27:59,746 Nice to meet you, Jeff! 547 00:27:59,779 --> 00:28:02,414 Uh, you wanted to go to the Gap, right? 548 00:28:03,249 --> 00:28:04,250 Hmm? 549 00:28:04,283 --> 00:28:06,218 Oh, right, right, the Gap. 550 00:28:06,252 --> 00:28:07,519 Yeah, Gap. 551 00:28:07,553 --> 00:28:09,889 Dad needs some new v-necks. 552 00:28:09,922 --> 00:28:12,691 Okay. I will meet you over there in a couple of minutes. 553 00:28:13,392 --> 00:28:14,961 Okay. 554 00:28:14,994 --> 00:28:17,797 Well, it was nice to meet you, Jeff! 555 00:28:21,133 --> 00:28:22,701 Hmm 556 00:28:24,070 --> 00:28:25,071 No? 557 00:28:27,106 --> 00:28:28,107 Okay. 558 00:28:30,642 --> 00:28:34,013 I am sorry about that. 559 00:28:34,613 --> 00:28:35,848 It's cool! 560 00:28:39,852 --> 00:28:42,421 T, how did we get two segments? 561 00:28:42,454 --> 00:28:45,691 Hey! Don't worry about that. We are on our way. 562 00:28:45,724 --> 00:28:48,127 You just make sure you go out there and you don't screw this up. 563 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,662 Thanks! I appreciate the pep talk. 564 00:28:50,696 --> 00:28:53,099 Live Night is a great look for us 565 00:28:53,132 --> 00:28:56,335 but this Lindsay McCormick chick is unpredictable. 566 00:28:56,368 --> 00:28:58,170 But her show is national, 567 00:28:58,204 --> 00:29:00,339 that means you've got to be ready for anything, man! 568 00:29:00,372 --> 00:29:02,674 Like what, man? What, a paternity test? Come on! 569 00:29:02,708 --> 00:29:05,611 It's not a joke, okay. You've got two segments. 570 00:29:05,644 --> 00:29:08,147 I need you to nail both of them. Okay? 571 00:29:08,180 --> 00:29:10,416 Show them that we are good television. 572 00:29:10,449 --> 00:29:11,417 Who is them? 573 00:29:11,450 --> 00:29:14,253 The powers that be, the audience, the world! 574 00:29:14,286 --> 00:29:16,889 Oh, T, T, T, you know, you are being paranoid. 575 00:29:16,923 --> 00:29:18,290 Everything is going to be fine. 576 00:29:18,324 --> 00:29:19,826 I am going to walk out there and I am going to do my thing. 577 00:29:19,859 --> 00:29:21,861 And what happens when I do my thing? It never fails. 578 00:29:21,894 --> 00:29:25,998 Yeah, but what if she says why is the relationship expert in a relationship? 579 00:29:26,032 --> 00:29:28,167 Uh? Yeah, fix your face. 580 00:29:29,902 --> 00:29:33,172 You better get me one of these chairs for my birthday, seriously. 581 00:29:33,205 --> 00:29:35,808 There is like three Thai ladies in here. 582 00:29:37,076 --> 00:29:38,310 Ah! 583 00:29:42,081 --> 00:29:46,152 I am Lindsay McCormick, and this is Live Night! 584 00:29:47,553 --> 00:29:50,957 We are back with Matthew Taylor, author of The Bounce Back. 585 00:29:50,990 --> 00:29:53,292 Matthew! Hey! Talk to me girl. 586 00:29:53,325 --> 00:29:56,062 I loved your book. 587 00:29:56,095 --> 00:29:57,997 There is really no other way to say that. 588 00:29:58,030 --> 00:30:01,400 But reading it was like a relationship bitch slap. 589 00:30:01,433 --> 00:30:04,470 What inspires this book, a broken heart? Yeah... Oh, yeah. 590 00:30:04,503 --> 00:30:08,875 I was in a ten year marriage that just went wrong. 591 00:30:08,908 --> 00:30:11,277 But I liked to say and I say it in The Bounce Back, 592 00:30:11,310 --> 00:30:14,780 is to consider that the past doesn't exist. 593 00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:16,248 See what I focused on is creating 594 00:30:16,282 --> 00:30:18,750 new possibilities for your future 595 00:30:18,784 --> 00:30:21,453 and how you can live into that future. 596 00:30:21,487 --> 00:30:25,457 It took me a while to hone that thoroughbred that you see right there. 597 00:30:25,491 --> 00:30:27,459 Is that right? Damn straight! 598 00:30:28,594 --> 00:30:31,597 It's kind of like the man behind the man situation, 599 00:30:31,630 --> 00:30:33,732 you know me, I am Terry Jackson. 600 00:30:33,765 --> 00:30:35,767 I know who you are. 601 00:30:35,801 --> 00:30:36,903 I booked you for the show. 602 00:30:36,936 --> 00:30:39,071 Oh! I thought Cherry booked us for the show. 603 00:30:39,105 --> 00:30:41,240 He did, he works for me. 604 00:30:41,273 --> 00:30:42,841 Oh, okay. 605 00:30:42,875 --> 00:30:44,376 Anyone? WOMAN: Confident. 606 00:30:44,410 --> 00:30:45,644 Confident, okay. 607 00:30:45,677 --> 00:30:47,079 How about over here? 608 00:30:48,214 --> 00:30:49,815 I didn't see you down at the seminar. 609 00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:52,885 Oh, well, you should have told me you were coming to the seminar, 610 00:30:52,919 --> 00:30:54,486 would have set things up for you, baby. 611 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,523 You know, got your full access passes and everything. 612 00:30:57,556 --> 00:31:00,192 Yeah, I would like to do my own research though, thank you. 613 00:31:01,227 --> 00:31:03,062 How many had a vision of someone? 614 00:31:04,096 --> 00:31:05,331 Now, I am not saying that you are 615 00:31:05,364 --> 00:31:07,599 or you are not going to end up with this man, 616 00:31:07,633 --> 00:31:08,634 but... 617 00:31:09,535 --> 00:31:11,103 An idea when flamed 618 00:31:12,438 --> 00:31:13,539 might just catch fire. 619 00:31:14,873 --> 00:31:16,808 And to catch that kind of fire 620 00:31:16,842 --> 00:31:20,579 you all need to go out and buy a copy of The Bounce Back. 621 00:31:24,116 --> 00:31:26,752 Okay, we like to look at all sides here on Live Night, 622 00:31:26,785 --> 00:31:28,287 so let's bring out our next guest. 623 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,923 She is a licensed clinical psychologist, 624 00:31:30,957 --> 00:31:33,525 Kristin Peralto. Come on down, girl! 625 00:31:36,862 --> 00:31:39,131 So what's going on? 626 00:31:39,165 --> 00:31:41,500 The same thing that went down at the seminar. 627 00:31:41,533 --> 00:31:45,371 Kristin, you specialize in love and relationships. Wait a minute! 628 00:31:45,404 --> 00:31:47,506 You don't agree with Matthew's assertions. 629 00:31:47,539 --> 00:31:49,175 No, I don't. 630 00:31:49,208 --> 00:31:53,612 Mr. Taylor and people of his ilk are charlatans. 631 00:31:54,246 --> 00:31:55,447 Oh! 632 00:31:55,481 --> 00:31:57,583 Meaning they have very good intuition about 633 00:31:57,616 --> 00:31:58,850 what makes people tick, 634 00:31:58,884 --> 00:32:00,452 about what people want to hear, 635 00:32:00,486 --> 00:32:02,488 and what's going to make people feel better 636 00:32:02,521 --> 00:32:05,257 about themselves at least temporarily. 637 00:32:05,291 --> 00:32:07,960 And what's so wrong with that? 638 00:32:09,628 --> 00:32:12,464 Well, self-help gurus like you, 639 00:32:12,498 --> 00:32:15,934 sell a magical elixir that's going to lead to lifelong happiness 640 00:32:15,968 --> 00:32:18,737 without any work or sacrifice 641 00:32:18,770 --> 00:32:20,139 and that's a sham. 642 00:32:20,172 --> 00:32:22,108 It's just not possible, 643 00:32:22,141 --> 00:32:26,245 and the only reason people are willing to believe you is because they are vulnerable. 644 00:32:26,278 --> 00:32:28,447 What the hell are you up to? 645 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:32,551 Just what she said, presenting both sides of the argument. 646 00:32:32,584 --> 00:32:34,153 No, no, no, no, argument, 647 00:32:34,186 --> 00:32:36,822 no one is having an argument with nobody. 648 00:32:36,855 --> 00:32:38,224 Trust me. 649 00:32:38,257 --> 00:32:40,359 I just did you a big favor. 650 00:32:40,392 --> 00:32:41,293 No, you trust me, 651 00:32:41,327 --> 00:32:42,628 I am going to talk to your boss 652 00:32:42,661 --> 00:32:46,098 and this is not the last time you will see me, trust me. 653 00:32:46,132 --> 00:32:50,436 See, when I was in therapy the conversation was always about the process, 654 00:32:50,469 --> 00:32:52,704 the road you are going to have to endure 655 00:32:52,738 --> 00:32:54,540 and how you have to grieve in order to move forward, 656 00:32:54,573 --> 00:32:57,143 but see my book The Bounce Back isn't about grieving, 657 00:32:58,110 --> 00:32:59,611 it's about creating. 658 00:32:59,645 --> 00:33:03,215 That's because you are unwilling to face uncomfortable truths. 659 00:33:04,950 --> 00:33:07,586 Well, here is the truth, as I know it. 660 00:33:07,619 --> 00:33:09,255 I have tried it your way, 661 00:33:09,921 --> 00:33:11,690 it just didn't work for me, 662 00:33:11,723 --> 00:33:12,924 so I developed my own way, 663 00:33:12,958 --> 00:33:15,661 maybe you should give it a try as a professional courtesy. 664 00:33:17,129 --> 00:33:20,732 If you are implying that we are in the same profession, we are not. 665 00:33:20,766 --> 00:33:22,334 My job as a therapist 666 00:33:22,368 --> 00:33:25,071 is to increase the individual sense of well-being, 667 00:33:25,104 --> 00:33:26,938 not to fill their heads with fantasies 668 00:33:26,972 --> 00:33:28,940 about the rippling abs in their future 669 00:33:28,974 --> 00:33:30,709 that's what E.L James is for. 670 00:33:32,778 --> 00:33:35,581 All right, well that's the perfect place to cut this off. 671 00:33:35,614 --> 00:33:38,384 Thank you Matthew Taylor and Kristin Peralto 672 00:33:38,417 --> 00:33:40,052 and we will see you guys tomorrow. 673 00:33:55,267 --> 00:33:56,735 So, where's the other guy? 674 00:33:56,768 --> 00:33:58,670 He didn't seem too happy. 675 00:33:59,771 --> 00:34:01,207 He wasn't. 676 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,075 They told me to let you have it. 677 00:34:04,343 --> 00:34:06,078 Don't think I got that memo. 678 00:34:12,017 --> 00:34:15,121 Look, that really sucked. 679 00:34:15,154 --> 00:34:19,191 Um, I am not a bad person really. 680 00:34:19,225 --> 00:34:22,328 Can I buy you a coffee 681 00:34:23,729 --> 00:34:24,830 Let's make it a drink. 682 00:34:28,167 --> 00:34:31,237 Yeah, we can get a drink. 683 00:34:35,274 --> 00:34:37,276 KRISTIN: When in Rome, huh? 684 00:34:37,309 --> 00:34:39,145 I highly doubt the Romans drank that. 685 00:34:40,246 --> 00:34:43,081 Is that what you studied at a uh, hmm... 686 00:34:43,115 --> 00:34:47,018 What's that school you went to again, that school? 687 00:34:47,052 --> 00:34:48,787 Subtle. 688 00:34:48,820 --> 00:34:51,357 Sports Science at Georgetown and then Law at UCLA, 689 00:34:51,390 --> 00:34:52,991 I was on track to be a sports agent. 690 00:34:53,024 --> 00:34:55,361 So you were a jock in college? 691 00:34:55,394 --> 00:34:57,163 Says the drama student. 692 00:34:57,196 --> 00:35:00,031 Drama is very therapeutic. Thank you! 693 00:35:00,065 --> 00:35:01,733 And how do you know I was in drama? 694 00:35:01,767 --> 00:35:03,202 Psychic abilities. 695 00:35:03,235 --> 00:35:06,305 Just because you have a voice in your head doesn't make you a psychic. 696 00:35:08,207 --> 00:35:10,942 Do you ever wonder why that voice in your head is usually very negative? 697 00:35:10,976 --> 00:35:15,447 Well, there is never a single reason why. There's always some underlying 698 00:35:15,481 --> 00:35:17,549 personal psychodynamic at work. 699 00:35:19,585 --> 00:35:20,586 Okay. 700 00:35:21,553 --> 00:35:24,055 What if you could control that voice? 701 00:35:24,089 --> 00:35:26,091 You can't control your subconscious. 702 00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:28,360 That is true, but you can choose to listen to it 703 00:35:28,394 --> 00:35:30,662 when it's good and ignore it when it's bad. 704 00:35:30,696 --> 00:35:32,998 Okay. How? 705 00:35:33,031 --> 00:35:35,201 You really want to know? Yeah. 706 00:35:35,234 --> 00:35:36,568 I don't think you mean it. 707 00:35:36,602 --> 00:35:38,504 No, I do! 708 00:35:38,537 --> 00:35:41,207 No, you don't. Don't tell me what I mean. 709 00:35:42,341 --> 00:35:44,610 I actually want to know how. 710 00:35:44,643 --> 00:35:47,546 It would be very helpful for me to ignore the voice in my head. 711 00:35:54,753 --> 00:35:55,821 You are terrible! 712 00:35:55,854 --> 00:35:57,656 Just read it. Never! 713 00:35:57,689 --> 00:35:59,725 That hurts! Good! 714 00:36:01,693 --> 00:36:06,365 If I am bored out of my mind, I'll consider. 715 00:36:06,398 --> 00:36:08,600 You have really beautiful eyes, you know that? 716 00:36:14,573 --> 00:36:15,607 Sorry! 717 00:36:17,509 --> 00:36:18,344 Hello! 718 00:36:18,377 --> 00:36:20,412 What the hell is this? 719 00:36:21,146 --> 00:36:22,514 An apology drink! 720 00:36:24,683 --> 00:36:26,385 Apology? 721 00:36:26,418 --> 00:36:29,120 Really? You're crazy Matthew! 722 00:36:29,154 --> 00:36:32,924 That's crazy, I guess. I don't know, should I? 723 00:36:34,726 --> 00:36:37,796 Producers at The Chat just called. 724 00:36:37,829 --> 00:36:39,398 Are you serious? Yup! 725 00:36:39,431 --> 00:36:41,300 That's a good thing, right? 726 00:36:41,333 --> 00:36:42,601 They want the two of you. 727 00:36:42,634 --> 00:36:43,635 They do? 728 00:36:44,069 --> 00:36:45,471 Why not? 729 00:36:45,504 --> 00:36:49,040 I'll tell you why not, message confusion. We have a brand. 730 00:36:49,074 --> 00:36:50,509 We can't be out here presenting it 731 00:36:50,542 --> 00:36:53,279 and let Ms. Firebreather try and burn it down. 732 00:36:53,312 --> 00:36:56,014 She is right there. I don't care! 733 00:36:56,047 --> 00:37:01,119 Hey, are you guys doing this? It's kind of a big deal, right? 734 00:37:01,152 --> 00:37:02,521 No, we're not doing it. 735 00:37:03,922 --> 00:37:05,657 Um, they're not doing it. 736 00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:07,793 How come? 737 00:37:07,826 --> 00:37:09,194 Because we don't like you. 738 00:37:09,227 --> 00:37:10,596 Okay. 739 00:37:10,629 --> 00:37:13,599 He doesn't mean that like... Yes, I do! Don't lie. 740 00:37:13,632 --> 00:37:15,301 No, I don't. 741 00:37:16,034 --> 00:37:17,403 Did you hear that? 742 00:37:18,837 --> 00:37:19,938 Hold on! 743 00:37:21,139 --> 00:37:22,508 Ah! 744 00:37:22,541 --> 00:37:23,942 Hello! 745 00:37:23,975 --> 00:37:25,444 No, we're not doing it. 746 00:37:25,477 --> 00:37:27,313 I know who you are... 747 00:37:27,346 --> 00:37:30,716 Why? Because we don't know who she is, do you? 748 00:37:30,749 --> 00:37:33,184 Does she have any lawsuits out there for malpractice? 749 00:37:33,218 --> 00:37:34,686 She is a therapist, not an MD. 750 00:37:34,720 --> 00:37:38,490 Look, we have the best-selling book in the country. 751 00:37:38,524 --> 00:37:40,992 Yes, and she is just a venom-spewing hatemonger 752 00:37:41,026 --> 00:37:44,863 trying to tap my client's celebrity status. Excuse me? 753 00:37:44,896 --> 00:37:46,932 Nobody is tapping anybody. He is just talking. 754 00:37:46,965 --> 00:37:49,335 You heard me. Why don't you tell those D-list 755 00:37:49,368 --> 00:37:51,737 pop psychologists that I took it easy on them, 756 00:37:51,770 --> 00:37:54,239 and if they ever have the balls to face me again, 757 00:37:54,272 --> 00:37:56,742 I will expose their fortune cookie theories 758 00:37:56,775 --> 00:37:59,210 and the napkin they thought it all up on. 759 00:37:59,244 --> 00:38:00,346 Okay, guys, seriously. 760 00:38:00,379 --> 00:38:02,481 Fortune cookie? Fortune cookie! 761 00:38:02,514 --> 00:38:05,517 You know what, your talk show days are over anyway, Ms. Lady! 762 00:38:05,551 --> 00:38:07,886 Great! Wonderful! Fantastic! 763 00:38:07,919 --> 00:38:11,222 I can't believe I spent $35 on two stupid drinks. 764 00:38:11,256 --> 00:38:13,959 I'll take care of it. Don't you dare! 765 00:38:13,992 --> 00:38:15,827 Oh, we dare! We dare! 766 00:38:15,861 --> 00:38:18,864 You get off! You get off it! Let go! 767 00:38:19,398 --> 00:38:21,633 We dare the most! 768 00:38:21,667 --> 00:38:24,703 All right! It's impossible! 769 00:38:28,540 --> 00:38:30,108 You are a true gentleman! 770 00:38:30,141 --> 00:38:33,645 Oh, you've got your credit card on you? I'll pay you back. 771 00:38:33,679 --> 00:38:36,081 You know, I am good. Come on man! 772 00:38:36,114 --> 00:38:37,749 I got it! I got it! 773 00:38:55,701 --> 00:38:58,537 "How To Grow Your Business Today"? 774 00:38:59,938 --> 00:39:01,039 Stupid! 775 00:39:10,315 --> 00:39:11,517 Really? 776 00:39:24,329 --> 00:39:26,565 Not so cute anymore, huh, Matthew Taylor. 777 00:39:28,266 --> 00:39:29,701 Bounce back from this! 778 00:39:39,110 --> 00:39:40,111 Hi! 779 00:39:41,079 --> 00:39:42,080 Um... 780 00:39:43,081 --> 00:39:44,716 We know each other. 781 00:39:46,217 --> 00:39:47,786 It's a really long story. 782 00:39:51,957 --> 00:39:52,958 I'll get this. 783 00:40:10,408 --> 00:40:11,610 Hey there! 784 00:40:13,445 --> 00:40:15,346 Hey Julie! 785 00:40:15,380 --> 00:40:17,115 She is going to be a few. 786 00:40:18,550 --> 00:40:20,886 Do you want to come inside for a minute? 787 00:40:20,919 --> 00:40:22,287 Oh! 788 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,923 I'm fine. Thanks! I'm okay. 789 00:40:24,956 --> 00:40:27,759 George and I started reading The Bounce Back. 790 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,896 Matthew, it's really great! 791 00:40:30,929 --> 00:40:34,866 I can see why you're having so much success with it. 792 00:40:34,900 --> 00:40:37,769 You know, you should really talk to him. I think that you... 793 00:40:37,803 --> 00:40:38,870 Oh! No. 794 00:40:40,506 --> 00:40:41,707 I'm fine. 795 00:40:42,541 --> 00:40:44,576 It's okay, but thank you though. 796 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:52,518 Well, I just wanted you to know that you are always welcome. 797 00:40:53,418 --> 00:40:54,620 Thank you! 798 00:40:59,991 --> 00:41:00,992 Bye! 799 00:41:02,127 --> 00:41:03,629 Take care. 800 00:41:03,662 --> 00:41:05,463 Hey babe! Hi! 801 00:41:06,598 --> 00:41:08,567 Love you! I love you too! 802 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,135 Hey short stuff! 803 00:41:10,902 --> 00:41:12,470 Hi, Dad! 804 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,174 Here, give me that. 805 00:41:19,911 --> 00:41:20,946 Are you ready? 806 00:41:23,248 --> 00:41:24,650 I need a favor. 807 00:41:26,785 --> 00:41:27,886 Uh-oh! 808 00:41:54,012 --> 00:41:55,581 Hey. What's up? 809 00:42:17,335 --> 00:42:19,537 What's up man? 810 00:42:24,275 --> 00:42:26,745 What are you doing? I'm drinking, man, I'm drinking. 811 00:42:26,778 --> 00:42:29,280 That's what I'm doing. I'm getting my drink on. 812 00:42:29,314 --> 00:42:32,217 Come on Terry! It was great television, let it go. 813 00:42:32,250 --> 00:42:34,252 Look, I'm sorry man! 814 00:42:34,285 --> 00:42:35,854 I'm just emotional right now. 815 00:42:35,887 --> 00:42:39,224 You do know it's still daytime, you might want to slow that down. 816 00:42:39,591 --> 00:42:41,727 Oh! Look, 817 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,862 when we started, we had a vision, you and me. 818 00:42:43,895 --> 00:42:46,765 You are Durant, I am Westbrook, right? 819 00:42:46,798 --> 00:42:48,299 Yeah, and we still are. 820 00:42:49,735 --> 00:42:51,002 I just feel like I let you down. 821 00:42:51,036 --> 00:42:52,938 Terry, what are you talking about? 822 00:42:52,971 --> 00:42:55,907 The producers of Entertainment Tonight called today. 823 00:42:55,941 --> 00:42:57,342 Okay. And? 824 00:42:57,375 --> 00:42:58,910 They want you in the show. 825 00:42:58,944 --> 00:43:00,078 You know, how this thing works, 826 00:43:00,111 --> 00:43:02,914 you know, nothing gets a crowd like a crowd, 827 00:43:02,948 --> 00:43:05,784 you get ET , the next thing you know, 828 00:43:05,817 --> 00:43:07,485 Love Nation is calling you. 829 00:43:07,518 --> 00:43:10,488 That is great news! What is the problem? 830 00:43:10,521 --> 00:43:13,892 They want you on the show, with her. 831 00:43:16,594 --> 00:43:19,931 It's not funny man. What's so funny? 832 00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:22,734 All right! 833 00:43:22,768 --> 00:43:24,069 So just call her and apologize. 834 00:43:24,102 --> 00:43:26,371 It's not that simple. She wouldn't take your call? 835 00:43:27,773 --> 00:43:29,240 And Kristin said she wouldn't talk to me. 836 00:43:29,274 --> 00:43:32,077 That woman is not talking to either of us, 837 00:43:32,110 --> 00:43:33,912 even if we pay her, because I tried that. 838 00:43:33,945 --> 00:43:35,580 I thought you just said she wouldn't take your call. 839 00:43:35,613 --> 00:43:37,883 I emailed her, hit her on Facebook. 840 00:43:37,916 --> 00:43:40,485 I liked all her pictures on Instagram, nothing. 841 00:43:40,518 --> 00:43:42,888 Hit her on Pinterest, LinkedIn. 842 00:43:42,921 --> 00:43:45,356 I went to every Starbucks that a chick would hang out, 843 00:43:45,390 --> 00:43:48,293 because every chick hangs out at Starbucks for the free Wi-Fi, 844 00:43:48,326 --> 00:43:49,427 she wasn't there either. 845 00:43:49,460 --> 00:43:51,963 I can't do anything else Matthew. 846 00:43:51,997 --> 00:43:53,965 I mean, I don't even know where her mother lives. 847 00:43:53,999 --> 00:43:55,667 I don't know her family like that. 848 00:43:55,701 --> 00:43:59,204 I mean, I don't know what else I could do. I mean, does she have a blog? 849 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,882 Matthew, right! 850 00:44:11,950 --> 00:44:14,152 Communicate, associate, empathize... 851 00:44:22,527 --> 00:44:23,762 This is a good book! 852 00:44:23,795 --> 00:44:25,964 You need to leave. I have an appointment. 853 00:44:28,900 --> 00:44:32,237 With me. You have an appointment with me. 854 00:44:33,271 --> 00:44:34,840 Mr. Right. 855 00:44:34,873 --> 00:44:36,842 I get it, ha-ha, very funny. 856 00:44:36,875 --> 00:44:37,943 Can you just give me five minutes? 857 00:44:37,976 --> 00:44:39,177 I don't think that's a good idea. 858 00:44:39,210 --> 00:44:42,680 You're a therapist, right? I'm a patient in need. 859 00:44:43,681 --> 00:44:45,216 Just five minutes. 860 00:44:46,785 --> 00:44:49,821 You're paying for 50, put the book down. 861 00:44:54,692 --> 00:44:56,061 I'm listening. 862 00:44:57,963 --> 00:45:00,698 Terry was wrong and foolish. 863 00:45:01,632 --> 00:45:05,136 He just... He gets very protective, 864 00:45:05,170 --> 00:45:08,673 but frankly, sometimes he's got his foot stuck so far up his... 865 00:45:08,706 --> 00:45:09,941 Turn around please. 866 00:45:15,046 --> 00:45:17,348 I am here to ask you to do the show with us. 867 00:45:17,382 --> 00:45:18,917 Give me one good reason. 868 00:45:20,518 --> 00:45:21,787 I'll give you millions. 869 00:45:25,824 --> 00:45:29,527 That's how many people watch Entertainment Tonight. 870 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,197 Come on, imagine the opportunity to help all those people! 871 00:45:32,230 --> 00:45:35,233 People aren't helped one iota by mass market sound bites. 872 00:45:37,068 --> 00:45:38,937 The appearance fees can be kind of nice. 873 00:45:38,970 --> 00:45:41,372 Helping people also isn't about making money. 874 00:45:47,412 --> 00:45:48,980 Look, 875 00:45:49,014 --> 00:45:52,517 I am going on television with or without you, 876 00:45:52,550 --> 00:45:55,821 and me and my mass market sound bites are all they're going to hear. 877 00:45:55,854 --> 00:45:58,589 Why do you care so much if I come? 878 00:45:58,623 --> 00:46:00,992 People deserve a balance perspective, 879 00:46:03,328 --> 00:46:04,329 and I like you. 880 00:46:05,030 --> 00:46:06,431 Excuse me? 881 00:46:06,464 --> 00:46:09,067 I do. I enjoy talking to you 882 00:46:09,968 --> 00:46:12,203 and enjoy being around you. 883 00:46:12,237 --> 00:46:15,306 I want to do the show with you, because I think it would be good for us, 884 00:46:15,340 --> 00:46:17,008 and I think it would be good for you. 885 00:46:19,911 --> 00:46:22,013 I can't stop looking at your eyes. 886 00:46:24,182 --> 00:46:25,483 Really? 887 00:46:25,516 --> 00:46:28,286 If someone is going to rip me to shreds on national television, 888 00:46:30,321 --> 00:46:31,823 I'd like it to be you. 889 00:46:33,691 --> 00:46:34,960 Say yes! 890 00:46:39,597 --> 00:46:42,200 WOMAN: The best-selling book bouncing across the country 891 00:46:42,233 --> 00:46:46,371 and two celebrity experts, with two very different opinions, 892 00:46:46,404 --> 00:46:49,908 we're going to be speaking with Matthew Taylor and Kristin Peralto 893 00:46:49,941 --> 00:46:52,143 right after this, the team behind The Bounce Back. 894 00:46:52,177 --> 00:46:54,712 MAN: Cut! I know, do it again. 895 00:46:54,745 --> 00:46:55,947 Okay. 896 00:46:57,582 --> 00:47:00,651 The best-selling book bouncing across the country... 897 00:47:00,685 --> 00:47:02,187 What? Yeah, right. 898 00:47:02,220 --> 00:47:04,990 Now she is a part of the team? Terry! 899 00:47:05,023 --> 00:47:07,725 How did you get her to do it anyway? Did you hit it? 900 00:47:07,758 --> 00:47:09,494 No. Did you get up in them jeans? 901 00:47:09,527 --> 00:47:10,728 No, come on man, stop! 902 00:47:10,761 --> 00:47:12,530 Look at me. I am looking right at you. 903 00:47:12,563 --> 00:47:14,032 Now, stop Terry, no. 904 00:47:14,365 --> 00:47:15,400 Man! 905 00:47:19,737 --> 00:47:22,407 I am sorry about that. He is uh... 906 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,375 He is just really nervous about this press tour. 907 00:47:24,409 --> 00:47:26,477 You know I am going to rip you apart, right? 908 00:47:27,812 --> 00:47:29,314 Bring it. 909 00:47:29,347 --> 00:47:31,849 Welcome to Entertainment Tonight! I am Rocsi Diaz, 910 00:47:31,883 --> 00:47:33,919 and today we're talking to Matthew Taylor 911 00:47:33,952 --> 00:47:35,820 about his controversial new book. 912 00:47:35,853 --> 00:47:39,124 That is a very dangerous perspective if you don't take into consideration... 913 00:47:39,157 --> 00:47:40,558 What the hell is she talking about? 914 00:47:40,591 --> 00:47:43,228 First of all, she called him a charlatan on TV, dawg. 915 00:47:43,261 --> 00:47:46,064 I need to talk to my client. Hey, hey, hey, okay. 916 00:47:55,406 --> 00:47:56,474 That's not realistic. 917 00:47:56,507 --> 00:47:59,077 She calls my philosophy a scam, I call it a belief. 918 00:47:59,110 --> 00:48:02,948 The payoff can't be achieved through a magical elixir. 919 00:48:05,216 --> 00:48:06,985 Stop it! I was going to take it, 920 00:48:07,018 --> 00:48:09,054 when I feel like taking it. 921 00:48:12,223 --> 00:48:13,591 Oh, my God! 922 00:48:25,670 --> 00:48:27,238 I promise you, read the book. 923 00:48:27,272 --> 00:48:29,840 You can't promise somebody a happy... 924 00:48:29,874 --> 00:48:31,909 I am all about living a happier life. 925 00:48:31,943 --> 00:48:36,447 Today we're here with Matthew Taylor, the author of The Bounce Back. 926 00:48:36,481 --> 00:48:38,183 Well, my book has sold millions of copies. 927 00:48:38,216 --> 00:48:40,285 Well, I think that's because you're a very good-looking guy. 928 00:48:40,318 --> 00:48:42,620 That's the first time she has actually given me a compliment. 929 00:48:47,625 --> 00:48:49,727 Are you okay? 930 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,362 No, no, no. 931 00:48:53,398 --> 00:48:56,401 It will fit. No, it's terrible. 932 00:48:56,434 --> 00:49:00,638 How is that something that you could actually sell? 933 00:49:00,671 --> 00:49:03,708 Let's read the book together, okay. Let's just try. 934 00:49:03,741 --> 00:49:05,110 This is a train wreck right now. 935 00:49:16,587 --> 00:49:19,790 Come on. I know Kristin loves 40 questions, right? 936 00:49:19,824 --> 00:49:22,160 Come on! No. 937 00:49:38,043 --> 00:49:40,278 Come on! Admit it. 938 00:49:40,311 --> 00:49:42,580 Come on! This is fun. It's not. 939 00:49:42,613 --> 00:49:46,551 Kristin, this is fun. I am not having fun. Stop it. 940 00:49:47,418 --> 00:49:49,154 Just say it. 941 00:49:49,187 --> 00:49:50,555 Fine, I am having fun. 942 00:49:50,588 --> 00:49:51,689 Oh, there we go. 943 00:50:24,989 --> 00:50:26,191 Hi. 944 00:50:29,827 --> 00:50:32,530 Come to the window, why? 945 00:50:41,005 --> 00:50:42,207 Hey you! What's up? 946 00:50:42,240 --> 00:50:43,908 What are you doing here? 947 00:50:43,941 --> 00:50:46,677 I was kind of thinking we could go out, get a bite to eat. 948 00:50:47,545 --> 00:50:48,779 Tonight? Yeah. 949 00:50:50,515 --> 00:50:52,850 Go put something cute on, let's go. 950 00:50:54,652 --> 00:50:55,753 Okay. 951 00:51:12,970 --> 00:51:14,539 You look beautiful! 952 00:51:14,572 --> 00:51:16,374 You look ridiculous. 953 00:51:16,407 --> 00:51:18,309 You're going to wanna put one on, trust me. 954 00:51:19,177 --> 00:51:21,612 I have to say I am impressed. 955 00:51:21,646 --> 00:51:23,281 I am impressed with how open you've been 956 00:51:23,314 --> 00:51:25,483 to such a radically different point of view. 957 00:51:25,516 --> 00:51:28,186 It says a lot about how much you believe in your methodology. 958 00:51:28,219 --> 00:51:30,888 Oh. Somebody's been reading my book. 959 00:51:30,921 --> 00:51:33,224 No. Oh! Come on now, tell the truth! 960 00:51:34,225 --> 00:51:35,693 I read the introduction. 961 00:51:36,294 --> 00:51:37,562 And? 962 00:51:37,595 --> 00:51:40,398 Not terrible. I will take it. I will take it. 963 00:51:42,066 --> 00:51:43,801 All right, here we go. Thank you. 964 00:51:45,503 --> 00:51:46,604 You're okay with this, right? 965 00:51:46,637 --> 00:51:50,175 For your information, I love ribs. 966 00:51:50,208 --> 00:51:52,243 How did you find out about this place? 967 00:51:52,277 --> 00:51:54,279 An old friend introduced me to this joint. 968 00:51:54,312 --> 00:51:56,381 Old flame more like it, I'll bet. 969 00:51:58,316 --> 00:52:01,886 Ooh. It was an old flame, wasn't it? 970 00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:04,422 It was my ex-wife actually. 971 00:52:05,423 --> 00:52:07,158 Did she break your heart? 972 00:52:07,192 --> 00:52:09,894 Let's just say I lost my faith in love. 973 00:52:09,927 --> 00:52:11,061 Don't tell me she wasn't faithful? 974 00:52:11,095 --> 00:52:12,497 No, no. 975 00:52:13,864 --> 00:52:16,066 She woke up one morning 976 00:52:16,100 --> 00:52:19,670 and she decided she was absolutely sure she wasn't in love with me. 977 00:52:19,704 --> 00:52:21,206 That sucks. 978 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:24,709 We must have said those three little words to each other like 1,000 times. 979 00:52:24,742 --> 00:52:26,944 All of a sudden it was like it never happened. 980 00:52:26,977 --> 00:52:28,413 How did that make you feel? 981 00:52:31,949 --> 00:52:37,021 I was consumed with it. I didn't eat. I didn't sleep. I didn't do anything, 982 00:52:37,054 --> 00:52:39,324 until one day I said screw it, 983 00:52:39,357 --> 00:52:40,758 enough is enough. 984 00:52:40,791 --> 00:52:43,494 I am not going to let love on me like that. 985 00:52:43,528 --> 00:52:45,796 It's time for me to take control. 986 00:52:45,830 --> 00:52:47,598 And that's where the concept of creating the love 987 00:52:47,632 --> 00:52:50,668 that I want for myself and my life came from. 988 00:52:51,936 --> 00:52:54,539 There, doesn't that feel better? 989 00:52:55,940 --> 00:52:59,210 That's processing. That's therapy. 990 00:53:02,247 --> 00:53:04,649 Okay. That was pretty good. 991 00:53:04,682 --> 00:53:06,251 You got me, I'll give you that. 992 00:53:07,151 --> 00:53:08,886 Tell me everything about your ex. 993 00:53:08,919 --> 00:53:09,787 I would rather not. 994 00:53:09,820 --> 00:53:11,856 Oh! Come on now, let's process together. 995 00:53:11,889 --> 00:53:14,992 I have talked about it enough for one lifetime. 996 00:53:15,025 --> 00:53:17,495 That is The Bounce Back. 997 00:53:19,129 --> 00:53:20,531 Let's eat. 998 00:53:24,902 --> 00:53:26,404 All right! Be careful! 999 00:53:26,437 --> 00:53:27,872 That's amazing! 1000 00:53:29,006 --> 00:53:30,308 That is sexy 1001 00:53:31,909 --> 00:53:32,977 and way too cute. 1002 00:53:38,148 --> 00:53:39,750 KRISTIN: So pretty! 1003 00:53:40,451 --> 00:53:41,919 You like it? Yeah. 1004 00:53:43,421 --> 00:53:45,690 I think of it as my little oasis in the sea. 1005 00:53:48,459 --> 00:53:49,994 I like these lights. 1006 00:53:51,429 --> 00:53:54,832 That's my little angel, her name's Aleya. 1007 00:53:54,865 --> 00:53:56,334 She is beautiful. Yeah. 1008 00:53:56,367 --> 00:53:58,736 I like her hair. 1009 00:53:58,769 --> 00:54:01,739 That little lady has saved me more times than I can remember. 1010 00:54:04,074 --> 00:54:05,610 She is something else. 1011 00:54:14,352 --> 00:54:15,686 What are you thinking about? 1012 00:54:18,022 --> 00:54:19,757 Nothing. Come on. 1013 00:54:19,790 --> 00:54:21,992 I know something when I see something, spit it out. 1014 00:54:22,827 --> 00:54:23,861 Nothing. Kristin? 1015 00:54:23,894 --> 00:54:24,729 What? 1016 00:54:24,762 --> 00:54:26,030 Don't think I didn't notice that you 1017 00:54:26,063 --> 00:54:28,466 sidestepped that whole conversation about your ex. 1018 00:54:29,500 --> 00:54:30,535 God. 1019 00:54:32,102 --> 00:54:33,438 Do I have to? 1020 00:54:39,577 --> 00:54:42,780 I was sure that it was going to last forever, 1021 00:54:42,813 --> 00:54:45,883 just like my parents, almost 50 years 1022 00:54:46,384 --> 00:54:47,652 and counting. 1023 00:54:49,053 --> 00:54:52,857 And I loved him more than anything 1024 00:54:54,659 --> 00:54:56,927 and I was sure that he loved me 1025 00:54:57,795 --> 00:54:58,796 but 1026 00:54:59,930 --> 00:55:01,231 I was wrong. 1027 00:55:01,265 --> 00:55:04,234 I literally could not have been more wrong. 1028 00:55:04,268 --> 00:55:05,470 What happened? 1029 00:55:06,404 --> 00:55:07,772 I am sure you can guess. 1030 00:55:10,975 --> 00:55:12,242 I'm sorry. 1031 00:55:12,276 --> 00:55:16,747 That image of him and that person 1032 00:55:18,616 --> 00:55:19,717 it's, um, 1033 00:55:21,251 --> 00:55:23,621 it's printed in my brain. 1034 00:55:27,692 --> 00:55:31,061 It takes up a whole lot of space up there, doesn't it? 1035 00:55:31,095 --> 00:55:35,366 And I am sure you are the guy who is just going to come and make it all go away? 1036 00:55:35,966 --> 00:55:37,402 Do you want me to? 1037 00:56:44,101 --> 00:56:46,737 Oh, okay, okay, I am sorry. 1038 00:56:48,038 --> 00:56:51,075 What 1039 00:56:51,108 --> 00:56:52,677 I have to go to the bathroom, 1040 00:56:53,978 --> 00:56:55,045 just for a minute. 1041 00:56:55,079 --> 00:56:56,313 Okay. Okay? 1042 00:56:56,346 --> 00:56:58,282 Where is it? Right there. 1043 00:56:58,315 --> 00:56:59,450 Okay. 1044 00:56:59,484 --> 00:57:01,486 All right. Are you sure you're okay? Yes. 1045 00:57:04,121 --> 00:57:05,590 Oh, wow. 1046 00:57:07,391 --> 00:57:10,895 Just calm down, just calm down, calm down, 1047 00:57:11,896 --> 00:57:14,899 six years, this is a good thing, 1048 00:57:14,932 --> 00:57:18,603 this is a good thing, you deserve this, you want this. 1049 00:57:27,645 --> 00:57:29,814 You're disgusting. Ugh. 1050 00:57:42,226 --> 00:57:43,227 It's show time. 1051 00:58:04,515 --> 00:58:05,816 Oh, wow. 1052 00:58:10,588 --> 00:58:13,123 I don't ever want to forget this moment. 1053 00:58:17,327 --> 00:58:18,596 You won't. 1054 00:58:43,287 --> 00:58:45,289 What's wrong? Mmm. 1055 00:58:45,956 --> 00:58:47,291 Nothing at all. 1056 00:58:51,128 --> 00:58:52,697 I feel amazing. 1057 00:58:54,364 --> 00:58:55,800 You look amazing. 1058 00:59:09,947 --> 00:59:11,315 What is so funny? 1059 00:59:12,516 --> 00:59:14,151 Nothing I just... 1060 00:59:14,652 --> 00:59:16,687 I just feel... 1061 00:59:18,555 --> 00:59:19,857 Phew. 1062 00:59:22,860 --> 00:59:25,796 Oh, my God, you smell so good. 1063 00:59:27,131 --> 00:59:28,733 You always smell so good. 1064 00:59:29,934 --> 00:59:32,102 It's one thing I've noticed about you, 1065 00:59:33,938 --> 00:59:38,876 and your abs, especially your abs. 1066 00:59:40,144 --> 00:59:41,746 Look at you. 1067 00:59:41,779 --> 00:59:44,381 You should be in a Bowflex commercial. 1068 00:59:44,414 --> 00:59:45,750 Okay. Um. 1069 00:59:46,450 --> 00:59:47,818 What has gotten into you? 1070 00:59:47,852 --> 00:59:49,887 Hopefully you in a few more minutes. 1071 00:59:50,855 --> 00:59:52,657 Okay. 1072 00:59:52,690 --> 00:59:54,291 Okay. Hey, hey, hey, Kristin. 1073 00:59:54,324 --> 00:59:55,760 Kristin, hey, Kristin. Yeah. 1074 00:59:55,793 --> 00:59:59,429 Look at me, are you on something? 1075 00:59:59,463 --> 01:00:01,766 Sarah gave me some pilly willys. 1076 01:00:01,799 --> 01:00:03,768 What kind of pilly willys? 1077 01:00:03,801 --> 01:00:05,836 Happy pilly willys. 1078 01:00:06,436 --> 01:00:08,172 I feel so good. 1079 01:00:08,205 --> 01:00:09,940 Oh, my God! 1080 01:00:09,974 --> 01:00:12,542 But not as good as you're about to make me feel. 1081 01:00:12,576 --> 01:00:16,380 Mmm-hmm. 1082 01:00:16,413 --> 01:00:20,584 It's been six years of celibacy and six years of celibacy 1083 01:00:20,617 --> 01:00:22,352 can make a woman feel like stone, 1084 01:00:22,386 --> 01:00:25,690 but I am not made of stone. 1085 01:00:25,723 --> 01:00:29,660 Hopefully one of us... 1086 01:00:29,694 --> 01:00:31,095 Okay, hey, um, 1087 01:00:31,128 --> 01:00:33,664 I don't know if this is such a good idea. 1088 01:00:33,698 --> 01:00:37,634 Oh, my God! You're so strong. 1089 01:00:37,668 --> 01:00:40,170 Just grab me, just like really tight. 1090 01:00:40,204 --> 01:00:42,973 Tarzan meets Jane. 1091 01:00:43,007 --> 01:00:44,041 Wooh! 1092 01:00:44,074 --> 01:00:47,644 Okay. Hey, look at you. Whoa, you okay? 1093 01:00:47,678 --> 01:00:49,179 Okay, um, you know, 1094 01:00:49,213 --> 01:00:52,016 maybe you should just lay down for a second, what do you think? 1095 01:00:52,049 --> 01:00:55,452 No! I am not gonna lay down. 1096 01:00:55,485 --> 01:00:56,987 I am gonna take this bra. 1097 01:00:57,021 --> 01:00:58,689 Okay, hey, hey, hey. What? 1098 01:00:58,723 --> 01:01:00,290 I don't know if you should do that right now. 1099 01:01:00,324 --> 01:01:03,828 Come on, as soon as I get this off we're about to get to business. 1100 01:01:08,032 --> 01:01:09,099 Kristin? 1101 01:01:11,902 --> 01:01:13,003 Kristin? 1102 01:01:31,355 --> 01:01:32,689 Matthew? 1103 01:01:43,667 --> 01:01:45,770 Morning. Morning. 1104 01:01:48,538 --> 01:01:49,807 Thanks. 1105 01:01:54,278 --> 01:01:55,345 Did we? 1106 01:01:56,346 --> 01:01:58,048 No, 1107 01:01:58,082 --> 01:02:00,284 not even a little bit. Hmm. 1108 01:02:00,317 --> 01:02:01,485 I slept on the couch. 1109 01:02:01,986 --> 01:02:03,020 Hmm. 1110 01:02:03,053 --> 01:02:05,255 Did you take some kind of medication or something? 1111 01:02:06,590 --> 01:02:08,658 My girlfriend gave me a... 1112 01:02:08,692 --> 01:02:09,927 Oh, my God. 1113 01:02:12,429 --> 01:02:14,464 I ruined it, didn't I? 1114 01:02:14,498 --> 01:02:17,301 You called me Tarzan. 1115 01:02:17,334 --> 01:02:19,336 And you did quite the Jane impression. 1116 01:02:19,369 --> 01:02:22,106 I mean, it was sexy, I am not going to lie, 1117 01:02:22,139 --> 01:02:23,941 but you were a little out of control, 1118 01:02:23,974 --> 01:02:26,176 but it was definitely sexy. 1119 01:02:27,711 --> 01:02:29,713 Is there something I should know? 1120 01:02:29,746 --> 01:02:31,816 Uh-uh. I mean... 1121 01:02:33,417 --> 01:02:36,686 I am not on drugs or anything if that's what you mean. 1122 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:38,422 Okay. Uh-uh. 1123 01:02:38,455 --> 01:02:40,024 So then what, what is it then? 1124 01:02:43,828 --> 01:02:45,195 Tell me about this, 1125 01:02:46,864 --> 01:02:49,133 I am sure there is a wonderful story behind it. 1126 01:02:50,567 --> 01:02:51,802 It represents my pride, 1127 01:02:53,871 --> 01:02:55,239 protection. 1128 01:02:55,272 --> 01:02:56,373 What is it protecting? 1129 01:02:58,342 --> 01:02:59,443 Me. 1130 01:03:10,454 --> 01:03:11,521 Was it too soon? 1131 01:03:12,289 --> 01:03:14,324 No, too soon, why? 1132 01:03:14,358 --> 01:03:15,359 It's a big deal. 1133 01:03:17,327 --> 01:03:19,429 Are you nervous? Hmm? 1134 01:03:19,463 --> 01:03:20,797 No. 1135 01:03:20,831 --> 01:03:23,300 You don't have to be nervous at all. 1136 01:03:23,333 --> 01:03:26,136 Trust me, my little girl has been bugging me 1137 01:03:26,170 --> 01:03:28,405 to get myself a girlfriend for as long as I can remember. 1138 01:03:28,438 --> 01:03:30,407 Really? 1139 01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,210 She is gonna be ecstatic to meet you, don't worry about it. 1140 01:03:34,078 --> 01:03:35,612 Okay. 1141 01:03:35,645 --> 01:03:36,981 You are nervous. Look at you. 1142 01:03:37,014 --> 01:03:38,315 I am. That's cute. 1143 01:03:38,748 --> 01:03:40,017 Hey. Hey. 1144 01:03:40,484 --> 01:03:41,485 Hey, you. 1145 01:03:42,819 --> 01:03:46,523 So, um, did you see Jeff today? 1146 01:03:46,556 --> 01:03:49,493 Um, he went with his friends. 1147 01:03:49,526 --> 01:03:51,195 Anyway. 1148 01:03:51,228 --> 01:03:52,963 Well, Aleya. 1149 01:03:52,997 --> 01:03:56,566 Hi, Aleya. I am your dad's, uh, friend 1150 01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,036 and I'm Kristin. Kristin, right. 1151 01:03:59,069 --> 01:04:00,537 I have seen you guys on TV together. 1152 01:04:00,570 --> 01:04:02,172 You have? Wow. 1153 01:04:02,206 --> 01:04:05,509 Okay, well, um, it's really nice to meet you. 1154 01:04:05,542 --> 01:04:06,977 So are you my dad's girlfriend? 1155 01:04:07,011 --> 01:04:08,478 Oh, whoa, whoa, hey, hey Aleya! 1156 01:04:08,512 --> 01:04:11,916 Seriously, if you like him please be his girlfriend, 1157 01:04:11,949 --> 01:04:14,051 he needs one badly. 1158 01:04:14,084 --> 01:04:16,020 You know I am standing right here, I can hear you. 1159 01:04:16,686 --> 01:04:18,422 All right! Anyway, um, 1160 01:04:18,455 --> 01:04:21,491 well, I was thinking we could all go get a little frozen yogurt or something. 1161 01:04:22,726 --> 01:04:25,930 Why don't you go get some frozen yogurt 1162 01:04:25,963 --> 01:04:27,797 and, um, we'll go shopping 1163 01:04:27,831 --> 01:04:29,199 and you can tell me all about your dad, 1164 01:04:29,233 --> 01:04:30,800 and I'd love to hear all about Jeff, 1165 01:04:30,834 --> 01:04:32,269 I'll keep it between you and me. 1166 01:04:32,302 --> 01:04:33,437 Okay. Yeah? 1167 01:04:33,470 --> 01:04:34,804 Yeah. Okay. 1168 01:04:34,838 --> 01:04:36,640 What is happening right now? 1169 01:04:36,673 --> 01:04:37,841 We're going shopping. 1170 01:04:37,874 --> 01:04:39,109 Okay. BOTH: Bye! 1171 01:04:45,649 --> 01:04:49,053 KRISTIN: And then she got this skirt that has these studs on it. 1172 01:04:49,086 --> 01:04:50,687 It looks so good on her. 1173 01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:52,289 MATTHEW: It better not be short, okay? 1174 01:04:52,322 --> 01:04:53,590 KRISTIN: It's not. 1175 01:04:53,623 --> 01:04:55,359 MATTHEW: None of these short-shorts, you hear me, young lady? 1176 01:04:55,392 --> 01:04:56,593 It's all right. 1177 01:04:59,964 --> 01:05:03,333 Dad, I like her. Don't mess this up. 1178 01:05:03,367 --> 01:05:06,136 Okay, you know what, get your little butt in the house. 1179 01:05:06,170 --> 01:05:07,171 Okay. 1180 01:05:10,374 --> 01:05:12,977 Hey, hey, hey. Come on, let me help you out. 1181 01:05:13,010 --> 01:05:14,979 ALEYA: No, I got it. 1182 01:05:15,012 --> 01:05:17,114 I know you got it, but come on now! 1183 01:05:17,147 --> 01:05:20,550 Oh, right, trying to impress the lady by being a gentleman! 1184 01:05:20,584 --> 01:05:23,687 Maybe, but you're kind of messing up my game right now. 1185 01:05:25,122 --> 01:05:27,992 Okay. I love you. 1186 01:05:28,025 --> 01:05:29,326 I love you too! 1187 01:05:31,761 --> 01:05:33,230 Hey baby! 1188 01:05:55,919 --> 01:05:57,421 So that's Julie? 1189 01:05:59,023 --> 01:06:00,624 Yeah. She is pretty. 1190 01:06:02,559 --> 01:06:03,994 Let's get out of here. 1191 01:06:12,802 --> 01:06:16,940 KRISTIN: Aleya is a wonderful young lady and a sassy little thing. 1192 01:06:16,973 --> 01:06:19,509 MATTHEW: That she is. 1193 01:06:19,543 --> 01:06:22,912 Thank you for being so amazing with her today. 1194 01:06:22,946 --> 01:06:24,548 You done good, Mr. Dad. 1195 01:06:27,551 --> 01:06:28,552 What? 1196 01:06:28,918 --> 01:06:30,420 What? 1197 01:06:30,454 --> 01:06:31,555 What is that look? 1198 01:06:42,132 --> 01:06:44,334 I think I'm falling for you. 1199 01:06:55,445 --> 01:06:57,547 Listen, I, um, 1200 01:06:57,581 --> 01:07:00,317 just wanna say I'm sorry for that whole thing back there. 1201 01:07:01,585 --> 01:07:02,919 What thing? 1202 01:07:02,952 --> 01:07:04,588 You mean me seeing Julie, 1203 01:07:06,923 --> 01:07:08,358 or Julie seeing me? 1204 01:07:10,894 --> 01:07:12,362 It just was unexpected. 1205 01:07:14,030 --> 01:07:15,332 Okay. 1206 01:07:19,136 --> 01:07:20,737 Why don't you go get some rest? 1207 01:07:22,972 --> 01:07:24,274 I'll see you at the show tomorrow. 1208 01:07:25,742 --> 01:07:26,810 Is that okay? 1209 01:07:32,082 --> 01:07:33,483 Good night. 1210 01:07:35,685 --> 01:07:37,087 Good night. 1211 01:07:46,963 --> 01:07:48,398 God. 1212 01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:51,535 Argh. 1213 01:07:51,568 --> 01:07:52,402 What do you want, Sam? 1214 01:07:52,436 --> 01:07:54,571 I guess that means you're still mad at me? 1215 01:07:54,604 --> 01:07:55,839 Yes, I am. 1216 01:07:55,872 --> 01:07:58,074 But you saved my name and number in your phone, so... 1217 01:07:58,108 --> 01:08:01,978 Girl, please don't tell me you called to rub in the fact that I like you. 1218 01:08:02,011 --> 01:08:04,481 No, I didn't, um... Yeah, well... 1219 01:08:06,183 --> 01:08:08,818 Well, damn! You might wanna pep it up, mamacita! 1220 01:08:08,852 --> 01:08:10,254 We're on in 20. 1221 01:08:12,055 --> 01:08:13,957 Yeah. 1222 01:08:13,990 --> 01:08:15,425 You are so sweet! 1223 01:08:17,994 --> 01:08:20,264 Hey. Hey. 1224 01:08:24,934 --> 01:08:26,536 Everything okay? 1225 01:08:26,570 --> 01:08:27,604 Yeah. 1226 01:08:29,539 --> 01:08:34,344 Ah, Matthew, put your number in there. 1227 01:08:35,179 --> 01:08:36,313 Oh, um... 1228 01:08:36,346 --> 01:08:38,982 Oh, I am... I am sorry, are you two together? 1229 01:08:39,015 --> 01:08:40,550 No, we're not. 1230 01:08:40,584 --> 01:08:42,219 For the show we're, 1231 01:08:43,553 --> 01:08:45,389 you know, debating philosophies. 1232 01:08:57,434 --> 01:09:00,069 All right, we're back with Matthew Taylor, 1233 01:09:00,103 --> 01:09:02,005 author of The Bounce Back , 1234 01:09:02,038 --> 01:09:06,676 and Nina says, go out and get this book because we love this book. 1235 01:09:06,710 --> 01:09:09,179 Am I right, Love Nation? 1236 01:09:09,213 --> 01:09:10,780 We love this book. 1237 01:09:12,549 --> 01:09:17,020 But Matthew, my next guest has a bone to pick with you. 1238 01:09:17,053 --> 01:09:22,091 Please welcome clinical psychologist, Dr. Kristin Peralto! 1239 01:09:22,125 --> 01:09:23,860 Come on out Dr. Kristin! 1240 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:32,502 That's right, Dr. Kristin. 1241 01:09:33,870 --> 01:09:35,138 Welcome to Love Nation! 1242 01:09:35,171 --> 01:09:36,706 Thank you so much for having me! 1243 01:09:36,740 --> 01:09:38,242 Thank you for coming! 1244 01:09:39,175 --> 01:09:42,946 So you have a beef with Matthew. 1245 01:09:42,979 --> 01:09:44,614 Yes, I do, Nina, 1246 01:09:44,648 --> 01:09:46,483 because Mr. Taylor 1247 01:09:47,551 --> 01:09:49,753 preys on weak-minded women. 1248 01:09:49,786 --> 01:09:53,423 He tells them what they want to hear in order to get them to expose themselves, 1249 01:09:53,457 --> 01:09:56,926 and well, he just doesn't want to follow-through when push comes to shove. 1250 01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:01,731 Hmm, are you talking about his book or is this something personal? 1251 01:10:01,765 --> 01:10:04,200 I think for people like Ms. Peralto, 1252 01:10:04,234 --> 01:10:06,770 a common... Excuse me, people like me? 1253 01:10:06,803 --> 01:10:09,939 You mean, women who trust you, who you make feel special? 1254 01:10:09,973 --> 01:10:11,708 And I am talking about the book, 1255 01:10:11,741 --> 01:10:14,711 I am talking about reading the book. 1256 01:10:14,744 --> 01:10:18,715 They feel as though your words are the most comforting thing imaginable 1257 01:10:18,748 --> 01:10:24,721 and then this whole you thing, with your swagger and your self-confidence. 1258 01:10:24,754 --> 01:10:26,856 Nina, let me ask you a question... Mmm-hmm. 1259 01:10:26,890 --> 01:10:30,394 And this is for all of the women in the audience. 1260 01:10:30,427 --> 01:10:35,131 How is it that a relationship guru isn't in a relationship? 1261 01:10:35,164 --> 01:10:36,700 Mmm. 1262 01:10:36,733 --> 01:10:39,002 Girl, you are going in for the kill, but, Matthew, I got to say, 1263 01:10:39,035 --> 01:10:40,837 my brown sister has a point. 1264 01:10:40,870 --> 01:10:43,507 Well see, in my book The Bounce Back... 1265 01:10:43,540 --> 01:10:46,576 I actually ask people to focus on the past... 1266 01:10:46,610 --> 01:10:48,845 Oh, I am sorry, is that in the 1267 01:10:48,878 --> 01:10:51,281 "I haven't really gotten over my ex-wife who woke up and said 1268 01:10:51,315 --> 01:10:54,651 "she didn't love me anymore" chapter? Because I didn't read that. 1269 01:10:56,252 --> 01:10:58,955 Whoa! This is getting better than I thought. 1270 01:11:00,524 --> 01:11:02,125 She is a piece of work, isn't she? 1271 01:11:02,158 --> 01:11:03,693 Are you still in love with your ex 1272 01:11:08,231 --> 01:11:10,634 Well, 1273 01:11:10,667 --> 01:11:12,869 I didn't see that one coming, Nina. 1274 01:11:12,902 --> 01:11:15,905 But the answer is 1275 01:11:15,939 --> 01:11:20,544 when my ex-wife woke up one day after ten years of marriage 1276 01:11:21,511 --> 01:11:23,580 and told me that she didn't love me anymore, 1277 01:11:24,714 --> 01:11:27,651 I decided that I needed a new definition of love. 1278 01:11:28,718 --> 01:11:29,853 What is love? 1279 01:11:31,087 --> 01:11:32,456 Is it a feeling, 1280 01:11:33,490 --> 01:11:35,291 is it a commitment, 1281 01:11:35,325 --> 01:11:37,394 a happily ever after pill? 1282 01:11:39,262 --> 01:11:41,698 I would like to think it's a choice. 1283 01:11:41,731 --> 01:11:44,901 See, Nina, we choose people for who they are 1284 01:11:44,934 --> 01:11:46,135 and who they aren't 1285 01:11:46,169 --> 01:11:49,005 and we make that choice every single day that we are together. 1286 01:11:50,173 --> 01:11:52,342 So yes, Ms. Peralto, 1287 01:11:53,076 --> 01:11:55,745 I do love my ex-wife. 1288 01:11:55,779 --> 01:11:58,047 I don't think I will ever stop loving her, 1289 01:11:58,081 --> 01:12:03,920 but she is not the woman that I choose to give my love to anymore. 1290 01:12:03,953 --> 01:12:07,991 See, I really believe that we have to stop thinking that love just happens. 1291 01:12:08,024 --> 01:12:11,995 That somehow, we are helpless and just along for the ride. 1292 01:12:13,430 --> 01:12:17,200 I honestly believe that we make that choice. 1293 01:12:17,233 --> 01:12:19,235 NINA: Wow. 1294 01:12:19,268 --> 01:12:21,204 That's how we do on Love Nation . 1295 01:12:21,237 --> 01:12:25,074 Well, I'd like to thank Matthew Taylor and Dr. Kristin Peralto 1296 01:12:25,108 --> 01:12:26,676 for coming on Love Nation 1297 01:12:26,710 --> 01:12:30,414 and having a passionate discussion about The Bounce Back. 1298 01:12:30,447 --> 01:12:33,683 And everyone in the studio audience is going home 1299 01:12:33,717 --> 01:12:36,520 with a complimentary copy of The Bounce Back . 1300 01:12:39,188 --> 01:12:44,894 That has been our show today, and remember we are a nation of love. 1301 01:12:52,836 --> 01:12:56,873 Matthew, I need to talk to you. We got good news, brother. 1302 01:12:56,906 --> 01:12:58,708 Good news! 1303 01:12:58,742 --> 01:13:01,110 Come on, man. What are we waiting for? 1304 01:13:03,112 --> 01:13:04,481 Can we focus here? 1305 01:13:10,153 --> 01:13:11,488 Can I get your mic? 1306 01:13:14,023 --> 01:13:15,559 Here you go. Thanks. 1307 01:13:15,592 --> 01:13:17,827 TERRY: I know you slept with her, just tell me, don't deny it. 1308 01:13:17,861 --> 01:13:19,496 The mic is still live. TERRY: I can smell it. 1309 01:13:19,529 --> 01:13:22,331 Touch that dial and I will break your fingers. MATTHEW: What's going on? 1310 01:13:22,365 --> 01:13:24,534 MATTHEW: What's going on? You did it. 1311 01:13:24,568 --> 01:13:25,602 I knew you did it. 1312 01:13:25,635 --> 01:13:27,136 T, what's the good news? 1313 01:13:27,170 --> 01:13:29,539 First of all I just wanna say that I should have had more 1314 01:13:29,573 --> 01:13:33,610 faith in you because I thought it was over for us after that whole Live Night situation. 1315 01:13:33,643 --> 01:13:37,180 Phew! I saw your wheels turning, but I didn't know how you would go 1316 01:13:37,213 --> 01:13:39,483 out and get her to do the show with us, you know what I am saying? 1317 01:13:39,516 --> 01:13:41,785 But then you had the firebreather in here, 1318 01:13:41,818 --> 01:13:44,020 following you here like a little puppy. 1319 01:13:44,053 --> 01:13:46,389 Ah! That was masterful, bro. 1320 01:13:46,422 --> 01:13:49,025 And just to seal the deal, you sealed a deal. 1321 01:13:49,058 --> 01:13:52,829 You threw her right out of her game. 1322 01:13:52,862 --> 01:13:54,698 She was out there looking ridiculous. 1323 01:13:54,731 --> 01:13:56,265 MATTHEW: So what are you getting at? 1324 01:13:56,299 --> 01:13:58,034 TERRY: Problem solved. 1325 01:13:58,067 --> 01:14:00,169 We just booked The Jason Kennedy Show! 1326 01:14:00,203 --> 01:14:03,673 What? Yeah, I told you, I am working for you, man. 1327 01:14:03,707 --> 01:14:04,974 MATTHEW: What are we supposed to do about her? 1328 01:14:05,008 --> 01:14:06,510 TERRY: What do you mean, what we are going to do? 1329 01:14:06,543 --> 01:14:07,977 I mean, come on, man! 1330 01:14:08,011 --> 01:14:09,979 The monkey's off our back. 1331 01:14:10,013 --> 01:14:11,581 Oh, T, I don't know, man. 1332 01:14:11,615 --> 01:14:13,349 What exactly are you going to tell her? 1333 01:14:13,382 --> 01:14:16,385 I got to talk to her, T, I got to. 1334 01:14:16,419 --> 01:14:18,221 Are you ser... Matthew! 1335 01:14:24,894 --> 01:14:26,229 Excuse me. 1336 01:14:28,431 --> 01:14:29,833 What the hell was that? 1337 01:14:29,866 --> 01:14:32,669 Uh, your microphone is still on. 1338 01:14:33,336 --> 01:14:35,138 Wait a minute, did she... 1339 01:14:35,171 --> 01:14:36,172 She did. 1340 01:14:57,160 --> 01:15:00,964 SARAH: I am gonna blow his seminar up online. 1341 01:15:00,997 --> 01:15:04,634 When I am finished with him, he is going to wish he never met you. 1342 01:15:05,735 --> 01:15:07,771 Big Momma is gonna take care of you. 1343 01:15:29,458 --> 01:15:31,527 I think that's him. Don't tell him anything. 1344 01:15:31,561 --> 01:15:33,229 Don't. I won't. 1345 01:15:35,064 --> 01:15:36,065 MATTHEW: Kristin! 1346 01:15:37,100 --> 01:15:38,101 Kristin! 1347 01:15:40,804 --> 01:15:43,740 Kristin! Open up! I know you're home! 1348 01:15:43,773 --> 01:15:46,109 I am not leaving here until you talk to me, Kristin! 1349 01:15:46,142 --> 01:15:49,078 Hey, man. Has it occurred to you, she might not be at home? 1350 01:15:49,112 --> 01:15:50,113 MATTHEW: Kristin! 1351 01:15:51,380 --> 01:15:52,716 Kristin! 1352 01:15:52,749 --> 01:15:55,051 Kristin! Stop it. Stop saying Kristin. 1353 01:15:56,385 --> 01:15:58,855 MATTHEW: Kristin, come on, I know you are home, open up! 1354 01:16:02,726 --> 01:16:03,960 It's my neighbor. 1355 01:16:05,261 --> 01:16:06,362 Daryl. 1356 01:16:06,395 --> 01:16:07,931 Hi. 1357 01:16:07,964 --> 01:16:10,834 Um, why don't you just tell him that I'm not coming home tonight. 1358 01:16:11,334 --> 01:16:13,269 Okay. 1359 01:16:13,302 --> 01:16:15,672 She said she's not coming home, you are wasting your time. 1360 01:16:15,705 --> 01:16:16,906 Where is she? 1361 01:16:16,940 --> 01:16:19,809 She doesn't wanna talk to you, you need to go home. 1362 01:16:19,843 --> 01:16:21,544 Look, I know she is here. 1363 01:16:21,577 --> 01:16:22,946 Kristin! 1364 01:16:22,979 --> 01:16:24,013 Kristin! 1365 01:16:24,748 --> 01:16:26,716 Please go home, Matthew! 1366 01:16:26,750 --> 01:16:28,284 Listen to me, I can explain. 1367 01:16:28,317 --> 01:16:30,553 You are not explaining your way out of this one, okay. 1368 01:16:30,586 --> 01:16:32,656 You slimy, no good... Okay. 1369 01:16:32,689 --> 01:16:36,092 Self-help guru whatever you think you are. 1370 01:16:36,125 --> 01:16:36,960 Kristin please! 1371 01:16:36,993 --> 01:16:38,762 I know, I know, it's not what I think, 1372 01:16:38,795 --> 01:16:41,731 I am sure that there is a perfectly good reason why you lie to me for a month 1373 01:16:41,765 --> 01:16:44,433 and then sold me down the river as soon as something better came along. 1374 01:16:44,467 --> 01:16:45,601 I didn't lie to you. 1375 01:16:45,635 --> 01:16:47,370 So all that talk about, uh, 1376 01:16:47,403 --> 01:16:50,539 wanting to bring balance to the tour, that wasn't a lie? 1377 01:16:50,573 --> 01:16:52,876 I meant it when I said that, I meant it, 1378 01:16:52,909 --> 01:16:55,044 I really wanted you there with me. 1379 01:16:55,078 --> 01:16:56,245 Good-bye, Matthew! 1380 01:16:56,279 --> 01:16:58,848 I agree. Kick rocks. Bye-bye. 1381 01:16:58,882 --> 01:17:01,450 I am not letting you go, I'm not losing you like this. 1382 01:17:01,484 --> 01:17:04,788 You used me. What am I supposed to say? 1383 01:17:04,821 --> 01:17:07,290 The past doesn't exist and move on? 1384 01:17:07,323 --> 01:17:08,792 I am not like you, Matthew. 1385 01:17:12,762 --> 01:17:14,664 DARYL: Love don't live here anymore, buddy. 1386 01:17:32,949 --> 01:17:33,950 Hello? 1387 01:17:35,484 --> 01:17:37,186 Wait a minute, what? 1388 01:17:37,220 --> 01:17:40,356 Okay, hey. Slow down, Julie, slow down, she is not with me. 1389 01:17:41,357 --> 01:17:43,326 Where's George? 1390 01:17:43,359 --> 01:17:45,194 All right, I'll be right there, I'll pick you up. 1391 01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:05,148 Okay, where would she be? 1392 01:18:06,682 --> 01:18:07,951 Over there. 1393 01:18:12,889 --> 01:18:14,824 Hey, Julie, slow down, slow down. 1394 01:18:14,858 --> 01:18:17,393 Wait, I am gonna go up, you go down, we will circle back. 1395 01:18:46,622 --> 01:18:48,157 Are you going to kill me? 1396 01:18:50,493 --> 01:18:52,896 I think your mom is going to kill you twice over. 1397 01:18:54,831 --> 01:18:56,099 Doesn't matter. 1398 01:18:59,135 --> 01:19:00,303 What happened? 1399 01:19:02,305 --> 01:19:03,472 He didn't come. 1400 01:19:06,509 --> 01:19:09,278 Maybe he just got held up. 1401 01:19:10,013 --> 01:19:11,280 No. 1402 01:19:11,314 --> 01:19:15,018 He was here, he just didn't come over. 1403 01:19:17,954 --> 01:19:19,856 It was all a joke to him. 1404 01:19:22,558 --> 01:19:23,860 Look at you. 1405 01:19:23,893 --> 01:19:29,165 You are beautiful, you are smart, you are so sweet! 1406 01:19:32,468 --> 01:19:33,803 Aleya, 1407 01:19:36,672 --> 01:19:37,974 love 1408 01:19:39,608 --> 01:19:43,079 is the most beautiful thing that we can experience in this world. 1409 01:19:43,112 --> 01:19:46,715 And if you were lucky enough to feel this for that boy, 1410 01:19:46,749 --> 01:19:49,718 nobody can ever take that away from you, 1411 01:19:49,752 --> 01:19:51,855 that's something special just for you. 1412 01:19:52,822 --> 01:19:54,991 And I promise you something, 1413 01:19:55,024 --> 01:19:57,961 one day you are gonna meet someone who loves you back, 1414 01:19:57,994 --> 01:19:59,929 just as much as you love him. 1415 01:20:01,965 --> 01:20:03,432 And when that happens, 1416 01:20:06,602 --> 01:20:07,937 it's magical. 1417 01:20:09,772 --> 01:20:11,074 I know, Dad. 1418 01:20:12,241 --> 01:20:13,309 Oh, you do? 1419 01:20:14,643 --> 01:20:15,979 Uh-huh. 1420 01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:18,381 But it still hurts, 1421 01:20:20,049 --> 01:20:21,985 and it totally sucks too. 1422 01:20:23,686 --> 01:20:27,356 So I think I'm just gonna keep crying until it stops hurting. 1423 01:20:47,276 --> 01:20:48,611 Thank you. 1424 01:21:21,177 --> 01:21:25,648 Hey. I know you are upset, but you can't stay mad at me forever. 1425 01:21:26,582 --> 01:21:27,650 I am not mad at you. 1426 01:21:28,817 --> 01:21:30,286 Grateful. 1427 01:21:30,319 --> 01:21:31,320 Grateful? 1428 01:21:37,393 --> 01:21:38,494 I read it, 1429 01:21:38,527 --> 01:21:42,966 cover to cover, and you know what, you're right. 1430 01:21:42,999 --> 01:21:47,070 The only way to heal is to learn to accept that the past doesn't exist, 1431 01:21:47,870 --> 01:21:49,405 and you got me to that point. 1432 01:21:50,706 --> 01:21:53,676 I am ready to create my future. 1433 01:21:53,709 --> 01:21:55,078 I know what I want, 1434 01:21:57,981 --> 01:21:59,648 and it isn't this. 1435 01:21:59,682 --> 01:22:03,419 It doesn't matter how hot we are for each other, 1436 01:22:03,452 --> 01:22:08,057 we are too different and chemistry isn't enough. 1437 01:22:18,834 --> 01:22:23,339 I am sorry Matthew, but, um, I have a busy schedule today, 1438 01:22:24,173 --> 01:22:25,708 if you can believe it. 1439 01:22:50,666 --> 01:22:52,635 Oh, hey. 1440 01:22:54,903 --> 01:22:56,139 Matthew Taylor. 1441 01:22:56,172 --> 01:22:59,142 Yeah, I know. I'm George. 1442 01:22:59,175 --> 01:23:02,245 I know. It's nice to finally meet you. 1443 01:23:03,779 --> 01:23:07,250 Aleya, she raves about you. 1444 01:23:07,283 --> 01:23:09,485 Not as much as she raves about her daddy. 1445 01:23:11,554 --> 01:23:12,588 Come on in. 1446 01:23:16,859 --> 01:23:18,294 JULIE: Who is at the door? 1447 01:23:18,761 --> 01:23:19,995 Dad. 1448 01:23:26,035 --> 01:23:27,236 Hey, Julie. 1449 01:23:28,737 --> 01:23:30,073 Hey, baby girl. 1450 01:23:30,106 --> 01:23:31,674 Oh, what a nice surprise. 1451 01:23:33,842 --> 01:23:36,479 Your place, uh, it looks great. 1452 01:23:37,646 --> 01:23:39,748 It's all George's. 1453 01:23:39,782 --> 01:23:42,551 Um, he's got the touch. 1454 01:23:42,585 --> 01:23:44,187 Oh, don't embarrass me. 1455 01:24:01,003 --> 01:24:02,205 Hmm. 1456 01:24:03,139 --> 01:24:04,607 He's a meat lover. 1457 01:24:15,118 --> 01:24:19,355 He is nice, and you two are nice together. 1458 01:24:19,922 --> 01:24:21,190 Thank you. 1459 01:24:22,258 --> 01:24:24,127 George really likes you. 1460 01:24:25,228 --> 01:24:28,764 I am just happy you and I can finally be friends. 1461 01:24:29,465 --> 01:24:30,499 Yeah. 1462 01:24:31,934 --> 01:24:33,269 Julie, 1463 01:24:37,206 --> 01:24:40,243 you never loved me as much as I loved you, did you? 1464 01:24:45,948 --> 01:24:47,583 I really wanted to. 1465 01:24:51,920 --> 01:24:53,256 I am sorry. 1466 01:24:55,057 --> 01:24:56,859 Don't be, don't be. 1467 01:24:59,462 --> 01:25:03,666 I think... I think I found somebody who does. 1468 01:25:08,671 --> 01:25:11,106 See you there. Bye. 1469 01:25:20,383 --> 01:25:23,919 So I recognize this great hook up you giving me. Hmm. 1470 01:25:23,952 --> 01:25:25,521 So what's the angle? 1471 01:25:25,554 --> 01:25:27,956 Angle? I am just helping out some friend in the talent department. 1472 01:25:27,990 --> 01:25:31,794 Oh, so your being here today has nothing to do with me? 1473 01:25:31,827 --> 01:25:33,929 Oh, sheer coincidence. 1474 01:25:33,962 --> 01:25:35,331 Do you think I am gonna believe that? 1475 01:25:35,364 --> 01:25:36,999 I don't know what you are willing to believe. 1476 01:25:37,032 --> 01:25:39,602 You like me, don't you? 1477 01:25:39,635 --> 01:25:41,504 Admit it! ALEX: Everybody settle down 1478 01:25:41,537 --> 01:25:48,777 and we are on in 5, 4, 3, 2... 1479 01:25:48,811 --> 01:25:52,315 Welcome back. My next guest is author and relationship expert 1480 01:25:52,348 --> 01:25:54,217 Matthew Taylor. His new book The Bounce Back. 1481 01:25:54,250 --> 01:25:59,355 It's for anyone struggling to get back on their feet after the end of a relationship. 1482 01:25:59,388 --> 01:26:01,490 Nice to see you, man. Well thanks for having me, Jason. 1483 01:26:01,524 --> 01:26:04,260 I am curious though, what do you hope people walk away with 1484 01:26:04,293 --> 01:26:05,961 after reading The Bounce Back? 1485 01:26:05,994 --> 01:26:10,065 What if I told you that you don't have to endure, overcome... 1486 01:26:10,098 --> 01:26:12,468 See that's why the book is winning right there. 1487 01:26:12,501 --> 01:26:15,238 He is honest, he knows how to connect with people. 1488 01:26:15,271 --> 01:26:19,475 I would say I wanna know how your book can deliver all those promises. 1489 01:26:21,510 --> 01:26:22,878 Well, um... 1490 01:26:28,951 --> 01:26:30,586 But then I read The Bounce Back, 1491 01:26:30,619 --> 01:26:35,391 and I got to say, I get it especially when you talk about the past. 1492 01:26:36,959 --> 01:26:38,361 Yeah, the past. 1493 01:26:44,132 --> 01:26:45,434 JASON: You know a lot of relationship... 1494 01:26:45,468 --> 01:26:47,670 Don't look at me, he is your guy. 1495 01:26:47,703 --> 01:26:51,173 Gurus talk about the past and make a peace with it, 1496 01:26:51,206 --> 01:26:53,141 but you don't say that at all, 1497 01:26:53,175 --> 01:26:56,412 you say the past doesn't exist. 1498 01:26:57,413 --> 01:26:58,647 But doesn't it, Jason? 1499 01:26:59,682 --> 01:27:03,519 I mean it's a great idea in principle, 1500 01:27:03,552 --> 01:27:05,821 pretending like the past doesn't exist, 1501 01:27:07,356 --> 01:27:09,292 it's not the same thing as completing it. 1502 01:27:09,325 --> 01:27:11,760 I don't think I read that in the book though. 1503 01:27:11,794 --> 01:27:13,829 That's because it's not in there, Jason. 1504 01:27:15,364 --> 01:27:16,965 I didn't know it when I wrote this book. 1505 01:27:16,999 --> 01:27:19,302 Oh. Oh, my God. 1506 01:27:19,902 --> 01:27:21,370 No, no! 1507 01:27:21,404 --> 01:27:23,639 Even though you might think that you are done with the past, 1508 01:27:23,672 --> 01:27:26,208 it doesn't necessarily mean that the past has always done with you. 1509 01:27:26,241 --> 01:27:27,910 What are you trying to say exactly? 1510 01:27:30,012 --> 01:27:31,347 I am full of crap. 1511 01:27:33,048 --> 01:27:34,750 What? 1512 01:27:34,783 --> 01:27:36,785 I am sorry, I am sorry, I should not have laughed. 1513 01:27:36,819 --> 01:27:39,922 You... You guys... You guys are amazing. 1514 01:27:39,955 --> 01:27:41,457 You think so? 1515 01:27:41,490 --> 01:27:42,925 My book The Bounce Back, 1516 01:27:44,760 --> 01:27:46,829 it didn't help me get over my ex-wife. 1517 01:27:46,862 --> 01:27:47,996 What did that? 1518 01:27:48,030 --> 01:27:51,634 I didn't get over, not really. 1519 01:27:53,602 --> 01:27:57,440 I just created a philosophy to keep me from getting hurt. 1520 01:27:57,473 --> 01:27:58,774 This has gotta stop. 1521 01:27:58,807 --> 01:28:01,810 Shhh! Are you crazy? This is live television. 1522 01:28:01,844 --> 01:28:03,111 You can't go on, okay. 1523 01:28:03,145 --> 01:28:04,780 Matthew! 1524 01:28:04,813 --> 01:28:05,948 The funny thing is, 1525 01:28:07,650 --> 01:28:10,085 I don't even think that I realized that's what I was doing 1526 01:28:10,118 --> 01:28:11,820 until I met the girl of my dreams. 1527 01:28:13,556 --> 01:28:17,860 And soon I felt things that I had never felt before. 1528 01:28:18,961 --> 01:28:21,830 This, uh, normally I go for a medium rare, 1529 01:28:21,864 --> 01:28:24,032 'cause that's where most of the nutrients are, 1530 01:28:24,066 --> 01:28:26,535 because if you get it more well done then it's... 1531 01:28:26,569 --> 01:28:28,537 You have a beautiful nose. 1532 01:28:29,672 --> 01:28:30,506 KRISTIN: Mmm. 1533 01:28:30,539 --> 01:28:32,274 Just I had to say it. 1534 01:28:32,307 --> 01:28:34,477 I... I don't like my nose. 1535 01:28:34,510 --> 01:28:37,012 No, it's beautiful and that was weird. 1536 01:28:37,045 --> 01:28:38,581 Well, I'm sorry. Thank you. 1537 01:28:38,614 --> 01:28:41,149 Uh, yeah, you're welcome! 1538 01:28:41,183 --> 01:28:43,952 Who is this special person? Kristin Peralto. 1539 01:28:43,986 --> 01:28:45,020 Is that you? 1540 01:28:46,288 --> 01:28:48,557 Hey, go back a couple. 1541 01:28:48,591 --> 01:28:51,960 No, no, no, no, there's... No, no, no, not needed. 1542 01:28:51,994 --> 01:28:55,431 She is the therapist who doesn't think too highly of your book, right? 1543 01:28:56,031 --> 01:28:57,366 I was scared. 1544 01:28:58,467 --> 01:28:59,835 I know that now. 1545 01:29:01,904 --> 01:29:06,575 But what I didn't know was how to handle her love. 1546 01:29:07,576 --> 01:29:09,144 What are you doing? Just wait. 1547 01:29:09,177 --> 01:29:11,380 Can he hear me? Matthew! 1548 01:29:11,414 --> 01:29:12,881 What I was going through. 1549 01:29:15,350 --> 01:29:16,885 I might still be with her right now. 1550 01:29:18,821 --> 01:29:21,289 Well, it was nice meeting you. 1551 01:29:21,323 --> 01:29:23,258 No, no, no, no, don't leave, 1552 01:29:23,291 --> 01:29:25,428 I... We... We are not together. 1553 01:29:25,461 --> 01:29:28,497 That guy is on national television pouring his heart out to you. 1554 01:29:28,531 --> 01:29:29,965 Yeah, I understand but... 1555 01:29:29,998 --> 01:29:32,801 Hey, lady, you're on TV. 1556 01:29:33,736 --> 01:29:35,504 WOMAN: Oh, my God! That's her. 1557 01:29:35,971 --> 01:29:37,205 Jason um... 1558 01:29:37,239 --> 01:29:39,808 By all means, do what you need to do right there. 1559 01:29:44,880 --> 01:29:46,582 Please can somebody go... Can we go to commercial? 1560 01:29:46,615 --> 01:29:48,083 Can you tell them... Stop! 1561 01:29:48,116 --> 01:29:50,218 Talk to the people in the... Talk to the people in the booth. 1562 01:29:50,252 --> 01:29:51,487 Kristin, 1563 01:29:54,990 --> 01:29:56,091 I'm sorry. 1564 01:29:58,961 --> 01:30:00,095 I am so sorry. 1565 01:30:03,966 --> 01:30:06,034 Hey. Turn that up. 1566 01:30:06,068 --> 01:30:08,537 Nothing has happened the way that I planned it. 1567 01:30:11,707 --> 01:30:13,809 I never saw you coming. 1568 01:30:13,842 --> 01:30:17,480 Matthew, don't cry on TV, man! Suck it up. 1569 01:30:17,513 --> 01:30:20,048 Now that I have caught a glimpse of you in my life, 1570 01:30:23,486 --> 01:30:26,455 I can't imagine it without you in it anymore. 1571 01:30:26,489 --> 01:30:30,926 I didn't honor the love that you felt for me because I had never experienced it. 1572 01:30:34,597 --> 01:30:36,198 I didn't know what it was 1573 01:30:38,433 --> 01:30:39,968 to be loved back. 1574 01:30:41,837 --> 01:30:44,006 I think he's in love with you! 1575 01:30:44,907 --> 01:30:46,374 Check please. 1576 01:30:46,408 --> 01:30:49,411 I appreciate your honesty, for you being candid. Thank you. 1577 01:30:49,444 --> 01:30:54,249 We are gonna be right back with the surprising Matthew Taylor. 1578 01:30:54,282 --> 01:30:55,551 Thanks a lot! 1579 01:31:17,806 --> 01:31:18,841 Hello! 1580 01:31:19,875 --> 01:31:20,876 Matthew Taylor! 1581 01:31:20,909 --> 01:31:22,545 Wait a minute! What did you say? 1582 01:31:22,578 --> 01:31:23,946 What are you doing? Where? 1583 01:31:25,347 --> 01:31:26,582 Okay. Thanks. 1584 01:31:26,615 --> 01:31:28,350 What the hell is going on, man? 1585 01:31:28,383 --> 01:31:29,585 T, I'm sorry. 1586 01:31:29,618 --> 01:31:30,953 If you don't go in there right now and fix this, 1587 01:31:30,986 --> 01:31:33,221 everything we worked for is over. 1588 01:31:33,255 --> 01:31:34,256 I love her. 1589 01:31:34,990 --> 01:31:37,259 What Really? 1590 01:31:37,960 --> 01:31:38,794 Her? 1591 01:31:38,827 --> 01:31:40,295 I can't let her get away. 1592 01:31:40,328 --> 01:31:42,565 I know this means the world to you, I do. 1593 01:31:42,598 --> 01:31:44,700 But look at me. T, look at me. 1594 01:31:44,733 --> 01:31:47,135 I have been dead inside for way too long, you know that. 1595 01:31:50,105 --> 01:31:51,273 He is not leaving, is he? 1596 01:31:51,306 --> 01:31:53,709 Shhh... Let's give it a minute. 1597 01:31:53,742 --> 01:31:55,744 I don't wanna give it a minute. Give it a minute. 1598 01:31:55,778 --> 01:31:58,814 Guess we could kiss being the number one bestseller good-bye. 1599 01:31:58,847 --> 01:32:00,816 If you really want me to go back in there and do this... 1600 01:32:00,849 --> 01:32:02,718 Yeah, man. Whatever, man. 1601 01:32:02,751 --> 01:32:05,888 You know what. It's a good gesture. 1602 01:32:05,921 --> 01:32:08,757 But at the end of the day you gotta do what's right for you, man. 1603 01:32:10,959 --> 01:32:13,395 And what real friend is gonna get in the way of that? 1604 01:32:13,428 --> 01:32:15,130 It looks like he is leaving to me. Alex, you are losing it 1605 01:32:15,163 --> 01:32:16,899 I am getting anxiety attacks. You're losing it. 1606 01:32:16,932 --> 01:32:18,466 Okay, okay, okay! Give it a minute. 1607 01:32:18,500 --> 01:32:19,702 Gi... 1608 01:32:21,036 --> 01:32:23,839 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, this is not happening! 1609 01:32:23,872 --> 01:32:26,975 T, you got this for sure? Yeah, you're good! 1610 01:32:27,009 --> 01:32:28,076 Thank you. 1611 01:32:28,110 --> 01:32:29,878 No, no, no, no, no, no, this is beyond unacceptable. 1612 01:32:29,912 --> 01:32:31,346 Shhh. We are on in 30 seconds. 1613 01:32:31,379 --> 01:32:33,015 Lower your voice, lower your voice. I will call security. 1614 01:32:33,048 --> 01:32:34,416 You are not gonna call anybody! 1615 01:32:34,449 --> 01:32:36,151 Excuse me! Let me do my job. Let me tell you something. 1616 01:32:36,184 --> 01:32:38,921 You better back up before I put these two books in your ass. 1617 01:32:43,091 --> 01:32:45,594 Um, Gary, do we have Jeff Goldblum available? 1618 01:32:46,662 --> 01:32:50,132 I am impressed. 1619 01:32:50,165 --> 01:32:51,734 Thank you. Thank you. 1620 01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:53,435 With him. 1621 01:32:53,468 --> 01:32:55,270 Of course. 1622 01:32:56,504 --> 01:32:58,807 Oh. That was good. 1623 01:32:59,875 --> 01:33:01,576 You wanna go get a drink? 1624 01:33:02,911 --> 01:33:04,046 Maybe. 1625 01:33:08,350 --> 01:33:11,887 So he lied to me, he used me to get on this stupid talk show 1626 01:33:11,920 --> 01:33:14,189 just to promote his stupid book. 1627 01:33:14,222 --> 01:33:18,460 Sounds like he is just scared to fall in love again. 1628 01:33:18,493 --> 01:33:20,595 He did sound sincere about that. 1629 01:33:20,629 --> 01:33:22,464 You two should really talk this out. 1630 01:33:22,497 --> 01:33:24,667 Listen, I am done with him. 1631 01:33:24,700 --> 01:33:27,202 I am completely through with Matthew Taylor. 1632 01:33:35,510 --> 01:33:37,212 Get in the car! Oh. 1633 01:33:38,313 --> 01:33:39,514 Kristin, wait! 1634 01:33:39,547 --> 01:33:41,283 Why we are racing to the car? 1635 01:33:41,316 --> 01:33:42,918 Just take me home, Glen. 1636 01:33:43,318 --> 01:33:44,319 All right! 1637 01:33:44,352 --> 01:33:45,854 MATTHEW: Wait! Kristin! Kristin! 1638 01:33:45,888 --> 01:33:48,924 Just, please, please let me talk to you for a second. Hear me out, please! 1639 01:33:48,957 --> 01:33:49,892 Is that him? 1640 01:33:49,925 --> 01:33:51,259 Drive Glen, please! GLEN: Okay. 1641 01:33:51,293 --> 01:33:52,194 No, no! 1642 01:33:52,227 --> 01:33:54,697 No, don't move the car. Stop the car, please! 1643 01:33:54,730 --> 01:33:56,431 How did you know I was here? 1644 01:33:56,464 --> 01:33:57,632 Sarah told me. 1645 01:33:57,666 --> 01:34:00,068 Is that your friend? Yes, drive! Please go! 1646 01:34:00,102 --> 01:34:02,805 I don't know if I feel comfortable. Shut up, Glen! Please! 1647 01:34:02,838 --> 01:34:06,608 I messed up, Kristin, okay? I didn't know what to do. 1648 01:34:06,641 --> 01:34:08,443 I really think you two should talk this out. 1649 01:34:08,476 --> 01:34:10,345 Please just go, Glen! I am ready! 1650 01:34:11,814 --> 01:34:14,049 I am getting anxiety. 1651 01:34:14,082 --> 01:34:15,283 Kristin, please! 1652 01:34:15,317 --> 01:34:18,320 KRISTIN: Shut up Glen and just go. Just go! 1653 01:34:18,353 --> 01:34:19,187 GLEN: Okay. 1654 01:34:19,221 --> 01:34:21,456 Not backwards Glen, forward, forward! 1655 01:34:21,489 --> 01:34:23,291 If I go forward, I'm gonna hit him! 1656 01:34:23,325 --> 01:34:25,560 No, he is gonna move out of the way. Just go Glen! 1657 01:34:25,593 --> 01:34:26,995 Shut up Glen and just go! 1658 01:34:27,029 --> 01:34:28,630 I just need you talk to me! 1659 01:34:28,663 --> 01:34:30,098 Go, Glen! Please! GLEN: Okay! 1660 01:34:30,132 --> 01:34:32,500 Shut up! Just go forward! Fine! 1661 01:34:32,534 --> 01:34:34,336 Forward! Go! I'm gonna hit him! 1662 01:34:34,369 --> 01:34:35,570 KRISTIN: Forward! All right! 1663 01:34:35,603 --> 01:34:37,305 Matthew, get out of the way! 1664 01:34:37,339 --> 01:34:38,774 I am not moving. 1665 01:34:38,807 --> 01:34:40,976 You want me to go forward? Forward! 1666 01:34:41,009 --> 01:34:43,078 Matthew, get out of the way! 1667 01:34:43,111 --> 01:34:44,479 I can't believe I'm doing this. 1668 01:34:44,512 --> 01:34:45,613 Get out of the way! 1669 01:34:45,647 --> 01:34:46,949 Ahhh! 1670 01:34:49,017 --> 01:34:50,786 KRISTIN: Oh, my God! 1671 01:34:50,819 --> 01:34:52,154 Are you dead? KRISTIN: Matthew! 1672 01:34:55,991 --> 01:34:57,025 Matthew. 1673 01:34:57,793 --> 01:34:59,327 You're crazy. 1674 01:35:01,930 --> 01:35:03,331 What are you doing? Kristin. 1675 01:35:03,365 --> 01:35:07,169 Kristin, Kristin, just listen to me, please. 1676 01:35:08,703 --> 01:35:10,705 You were right, 1677 01:35:10,739 --> 01:35:15,443 you can't create a future without completing the past, you were right. 1678 01:35:15,477 --> 01:35:19,748 Pretending like Julie and I never happened, it doesn't work, okay? 1679 01:35:21,183 --> 01:35:24,352 You're the only person in my life who has ever loved me back 1680 01:35:24,386 --> 01:35:25,788 as much as I love them. 1681 01:35:27,756 --> 01:35:29,825 I know you think I was trying to play you. 1682 01:35:32,861 --> 01:35:35,430 And I was. I am so sorry for that. 1683 01:35:36,965 --> 01:35:38,767 I will never hurt you again. 1684 01:35:44,339 --> 01:35:46,041 You're too important to me. 1685 01:35:49,711 --> 01:35:51,046 I need you. 1686 01:35:53,982 --> 01:35:55,450 Kristin, I love you! 1687 01:35:58,153 --> 01:35:59,221 You love me? 1688 01:35:59,587 --> 01:36:00,856 Yes. 1689 01:36:01,456 --> 01:36:02,524 Really? 1690 01:36:02,557 --> 01:36:04,459 Yes. Yes. 1691 01:36:06,528 --> 01:36:08,030 Really, really? 1692 01:36:11,266 --> 01:36:12,467 I do. 1693 01:36:44,833 --> 01:36:47,069 Welcome back to The George Addison show! 1694 01:36:47,102 --> 01:36:50,072 My next guests are best-selling husband and wife co-authors 1695 01:36:50,105 --> 01:36:54,809 of The Never-Ending Kiss: How to Make Every Time Feel like the First Time, 1696 01:36:54,843 --> 01:37:00,182 and they are the hottest self-help celebrity couple on the planet, 1697 01:37:00,215 --> 01:37:04,286 so please give a warm welcome to Matthew and Kristin Taylor. 1698 01:37:04,319 --> 01:37:06,188 Well, thank you for having us, George! 1699 01:37:06,221 --> 01:37:11,927 There is an interesting story on what you guys did on your honeymoon. 1700 01:37:11,960 --> 01:37:13,996 Let's just say we were, uh... 1701 01:37:14,029 --> 01:37:16,364 We were very productive. 1702 01:37:16,398 --> 01:37:19,101 We were. We were productive writing. 1703 01:37:19,134 --> 01:37:20,903 I love their chemistry. Mmm-hmm. 1704 01:37:20,936 --> 01:37:23,571 They feed off each other perfectly, right? Uh-huh. 1705 01:37:23,605 --> 01:37:24,639 This is good. 1706 01:37:24,672 --> 01:37:26,141 This is good. 1707 01:37:26,174 --> 01:37:29,544 It's a very impressive booking right out of the gate. 1708 01:37:29,577 --> 01:37:31,113 Honestly, it was all Matthew. 1709 01:37:33,748 --> 01:37:35,918 Thank you for the invite. 1710 01:37:35,951 --> 01:37:39,021 You know, I've never been part of someone's posse, so... 1711 01:37:39,054 --> 01:37:40,923 Because you're usually the behind the scenes, 1712 01:37:40,956 --> 01:37:43,058 calling the shots type of girl, huh? 1713 01:37:45,493 --> 01:37:50,598 Hey, he's... Actually, we have another relationship seminar in Diego, 1714 01:37:50,632 --> 01:37:53,335 would you be interested in coming down for the weekend? 1715 01:37:53,969 --> 01:37:55,370 It would be cool. 1716 01:37:55,403 --> 01:37:58,473 You want me to spend the weekend with you? 1717 01:37:58,506 --> 01:38:02,677 At the relationship seminar, it's nice weather, people... Mmm-hmm. 1718 01:38:02,710 --> 01:38:04,913 Beaches, military. Mmm-hmm. 1719 01:38:07,282 --> 01:38:08,450 Sure. 1720 01:38:12,620 --> 01:38:13,922 Military? 1721 01:38:16,858 --> 01:38:18,793 We started talking about our first kiss, right? 1722 01:38:18,826 --> 01:38:21,329 Yes, and how undeniable it was, 1723 01:38:21,363 --> 01:38:24,432 our connection, and our attraction for one another. 1724 01:38:24,466 --> 01:38:26,801 We were connecting a lot. 1725 01:38:26,834 --> 01:38:30,072 And brainstorming, George, we were... 1726 01:38:30,105 --> 01:38:32,540 She was brainstorming. I was trying to connect. 1727 01:38:32,574 --> 01:38:36,244 This is true, mostly me, I was brainstorming. 1728 01:38:45,487 --> 01:38:47,089 MATTHEW: Come here! 1729 01:38:56,398 --> 01:38:58,000 Come here. 1730 01:38:58,033 --> 01:38:59,234 I am looking for something. 1731 01:38:59,267 --> 01:39:00,768 What do you mean you're looking for something? 1732 01:39:00,802 --> 01:39:02,437 Just, hold on. 1733 01:39:02,470 --> 01:39:05,373 Oh, okay, well, hold on, wait a minute. 1734 01:39:05,407 --> 01:39:06,908 Kristin, you're about to step up to the mike, 1735 01:39:06,941 --> 01:39:08,643 what are you doing, huh? 1736 01:39:08,676 --> 01:39:09,644 KRISTIN: I can't find it. 1737 01:39:09,677 --> 01:39:11,213 MATTHEW: Babe, it's right there in the middle. 1738 01:39:11,246 --> 01:39:12,547 KRISTIN: No, I'm not talking about that. 1739 01:39:12,580 --> 01:39:14,416 It's going to sneak up on you. Watch out now! 1740 01:39:14,449 --> 01:39:15,717 Hold on, I'm trying to find something. 1741 01:39:15,750 --> 01:39:16,784 What do you mean find something? 1742 01:39:16,818 --> 01:39:18,653 Where'd it go? 1743 01:39:18,686 --> 01:39:21,089 KRISTIN: Babe? MATTHEW: Huh? 1744 01:39:21,123 --> 01:39:22,690 KRISTIN: I think we need to start a new book. 1745 01:39:23,525 --> 01:39:24,626 Start a new book? 1746 01:39:28,663 --> 01:39:29,664 What? 1747 01:39:36,604 --> 01:39:37,605 No. 1748 01:39:39,007 --> 01:39:40,308 Really? 1749 01:39:41,843 --> 01:39:43,511 We're having a baby. 1750 01:39:43,545 --> 01:39:44,712 We're having a baby. 1751 01:39:45,813 --> 01:39:47,849 We're having a baby? Yes. 1752 01:39:47,882 --> 01:39:49,684 Kristin, we're having a baby? Yes. 1753 01:39:56,024 --> 01:39:58,726 I love you. We're having a baby. 1754 01:39:59,594 --> 01:40:00,762 We're having a baby. 1755 01:40:03,365 --> 01:40:04,999 We're having a baby. Yes! 1756 01:43:46,954 --> 01:43:49,957 Captioning by Deluxe